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Why do women wear tight leggings ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Mar 10, 2018.

  1. I do honestly believe it's natural and is a thing men subconsciously do, but it's as you say they have the capability to realise and move on instead of lusting. Porn aside I believe the attraction is healthy and shouldn't be viewed in a negative way, and it's when that person can't control themselves it becomes a problem.
     
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  2. Because they like to wear tight leggings.
     
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  3. You shouldn't have to shy away completely from natural desires such as staring/glancing, women are beautiful beings and there's no shame or harm in admiring them in any way. Don't worry mate, I'm sure you'll get there in time especially as your confidence grows.
     
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  4. IdleEyes49

    IdleEyes49 Fapstronaut

    I remember hearing about a Hebrew prayer that was supposed to be said when seeing an attractive woman. It translated to something like "Praise to you, our God, ruler of the world, who has created such beautiful things in your world." (Apologies to anyone who is Jewish or who has better knowledge of Judaism, if I'm misquoting or misinterpreting this, and I know there's probably more tradition around it). The idea was that you'd say the prayer the first time you see this person, and then stop staring. It's OK, even good, to notice and enjoy the sight, but we shouldn't keep staring too long or too intensely.
     
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  5. john27

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    You're overthinking it. You see an attractive woman in tight leggings? You feel your dick tingling in your pants? Okay, that's completely normal. Now accept that she's hot and move on. It's not like anything has to change for you just because you saw this woman you don't even know.
     
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  6. It's simple - women want us to look, except when they don't. See, easy. ;)
     
  7. Rancid Tove

    Rancid Tove Fapstronaut

    Actually that is more true than some might think. Though I make no apologies. Women are complicated creatures, perhaps you have noticed.
     
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  8. Maybe not so complicated: perhaps they only want attention from the 10% of guys that are actually hot, or from high status and/or wealthy men; everybody else is supposed to ignore them.
     
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  9. Some like to only be stared at by hot or certain looking guys, and get annoyed when older or people they don't find attractive stare. And some just dont like to looked at peroid, could be personal or maybe some other thing like boundaries. But for others including myself really don't care who stares regardless of gender, status, or age, I just take it as a huge compliment really since they find me attractive for whatever the reason. :)

    I don't believe I've ever complained about staring or even comments, except for when they go to far in my personal space otherwise I don't mind.
     
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  10. Good for you.

    I used to be one of those guys that stared and lusted, with no guilt at all. Since coming here, I've decided to try to adhere to the 3 second rule. I haven't been doing too bad - but it hasn't gotten warm yet.
     
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  11. I mean really, I could whine and complain about every guy who looked at me but that wouldn't be fair. Men are visual creatures and I'm confliced because if a guy is looking at a girl thinking she's hot and has a nice body that can be considered lusting and objectifying, I guess in my opinion if a guy is staring at me and my body as long he's not full on standing there ogling and doesn't touch me I don't mind.

    While I were things like yoga pants or whatever I don't dress like rubbish, I'm more talking about the aspect on my perspective when guys watch/look. Some women absolutely hate it while others couldn't care less.

    The problem for me is I don't like confrontation and so if a guy does something to me physically I freeze up, especially in a public environment.
     
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  12. I think that the same can be said for both sexes. We aim to attract what we want, but a lot of unwanted attention comes along as well.
     
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  13. Rancid Tove

    Rancid Tove Fapstronaut

    Look if you want but no touching and no catcalls or lewd comments. If I don’t want to be noticed, I dress one way, if I do want noticed, I can flash it up a bit.
    I cannot speak for others though. Generally I feel everyone should dress attractively others should appreciate and not judge.
     
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  14. Admittedly I have dressed "sexy" once in a while but again it's always pretty modest, and I don't care if either men or women do it as I myself don't judge. Unfortunately we do have to prepare for creeps, sexual comments and touching even though it's obviously wrong and they shouldn't do it in the first place.
     
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  15. 21yearsin

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    If I get catcalled or hear a lewd comment the offender can expect some foul language or a kick in the groin from me
     
  16. I wish I could do that, if it were life and death sure but being in one of those situations can really suck if you're in say a public space. Not to mention no matter the person I don't have the heart or guts to hurt someone even like that. :(
     
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  17. 21yearsin

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    I'm 22 years your senior, wait till you get up here at your age I couldn't either but now......
     
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  18. Yeah, maybe. I don't even slap or yell at people that are really inappropriate. Being an introvert (INFP) makes that aspect so much harder for me, I guess we'll see.
     
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  19. Fix_It_Mate

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    Ignore them if you think they're just being attention seekers and especially if you wouldn't approach them. Nothing to be gained lusting over randoms. Just like porn.

    If they wouldn't give you the time of day, then why let them hold this power over you?

    You probably won't even see them again, at least not knowingly.
     
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  20. AC9B

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    Amen brother.
     

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