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Why do women wear tight leggings ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Mar 10, 2018.

  1. All around my city, i can see women from 14 to 70 years old wearing tight leggings..what do they wanna prove with this..is it just a damn fashion. Exposing body parts have become a fashion now. Girls must have some discipline in their dressing style. I don't know about westerns but here this type of things are mainly influenced from there.
     
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  2. I used to think this - the reality is it doesn't matter what people wear - we should not think of them as sex objects.

    It works the other way around too. Grey sweatpants on men are known to drive girls crazy.

    I do truly appreciate what you are saying though... It seems girls are wearing less & less, for example they now wear "mesh" aka see-through dresses on nights out. I find it pretty crazy, but again it all stems from us as men - now that we're all porn addicted bozos we're expecting more from women.

    But we can't blame the girls. And hey, there are LOT's of girls in the world - if you don't like girls that dress like this, don't approach them - just find other girls who dress how you prefer. But honestly you would be surprised, most of those girls who you thinking are dressing "sexually" are not that way inclined at all.
     
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  3. FEEL

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  4. People will always wear what ever they feel like because either they are going with a trend, they feel comfortable or they want to make a statement. I think we have to realise that just because someone is wearing a particular type of clothing it doesn't mean they are 'easy' or 'asking for it' because everything is down to interpretation, what arouses one person wont necessarily arouse another. Unfortunately girls who do go out and wear extremely little will get unwanted attention from jerks, some might enjoy the attention and others maybe not so much. It doesn't really bother me anymore, i mean sure some girls wear stuff that makes your head turn but so what? some things you just have to accept and move on and in day to day life to be honest most people wear sensible clothes, it's only really when you are out at night or in certain areas. Women have worn leggings for decades, i don't believe in telling people what they can and can't wear if they are adults, else it would be like North Korea or some kind of dictatorship. In Victorian times it was considered indecent for women to show their ankles and even table legs were covered with adornments because back then it was a very puritan era, today is like the complete reverse and much more liberal thanks to freedom of expression and speech in the western world although of course with that comes the pushing of boundaries and I do wonder with the prevalence of hardcore pornography on the internet how much further those boundaries will get pushed in the coming years.
     
  5. Those are my downfall and addiction but I have a wife that wears them. She does it because they are comfortable and you can match them with pretty much anything. Plus it's fashion. Women aren't doing anything wrong by wearing them but yeah it doesn't help us either.
     
  6. I’m convinced yoga pants will lead to the downfall of men. They’re everywhere. It’s unreal.
     
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  7. Nope, it will be the downfall of women when all of us NoFappers get released back into the wilderness with our 365+ day streaks and they are all drueling over us thanks to our NoFap super powers ;) LOL
     
  8. When I was growing up, even in college, you rarely got to see a woman like that. Tight jeans yes, but nothing like tights/yogapants/leggings. On my college campus I remember seeing what must have been a dance major dressed like that and I nearly shot my load.

    Now it's everywhere. I can't imagine being a teenager now...

    Now I now live in a city with a lot of young pretty women. I see what was a once a year if that sight a few times a day. I get that women wear it for comfort but I am sure at least some women do it to showcase their bodies.

    I don't like when women dress trashy but a woman with a nice body who displays it tastefully, I don't have any objection, but I have taught myself to not look as part of a reboot.

    I used to think I had a 'fetish' about this and I think I do - to the point where I wouldn't be interested in a woman unless she dressed like that -which was stupid! But really it's quite naturally to be extra turned on by it because the tights/leggings actually create a hypersexualized look - by smoothing lines and emphasizing the form.
     
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  9. Honestly it sounds like these "mesh dresses" haven't hit your cities yet. They are the next level up from leggings... Now those are CRAZY.

    BUT... As it was mentioned above, this type of stuff (no matter how hot the girl) generally attracts the WRONG kind of men. I personally would much prefer to see a women in a formal dress or something like that & I would respect a girl wearing it much more.

    Also, you find that the girls who wear these types of clothes have the poorest personalities (not always, but often). That's the reason they have to wear the clothes in the first place, to over compensate and keep guys talking to them who would likely abandon them once they started talking if they were wearing something covering.

    Just don't concern yourself over them - focus on yourself, and making yourself the person that will attract the type of girl you're looking for.
     
  10. I couldn't disagree with you more on the part in bold. I know you said not always but often but I still disagree with that. You couldn't be more off base in my opinion. My wife wears them and she mostly definitely does not have a poor personality. And I know tons of her friends and other girls that have amazing personalities that all wear them. That's simply it. All girls wear them because it's just a new fashion sense...almost as popular as like jeans are for a guy. Yeah they are more revealing but it doesn't take away the fact that everyone is just wearing them because they are the new fashion sense. It has nothing to do with poor personalities.
     
  11. I guess you're right - it's kinda wrong of me to tarnishing everything with the same brush based on what they wear. Just FYI I wasn't speaking about leggings in that statement - I was speaking about the entirely see-through dresses, where girls go out bra-free and in just a mesh dress, but yes I guess the same logic still applies.
     
  12. I used to stare at those women. Now I use the 3 second rule. Usually.
     
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  13. It is a bit odd, though, when women wear that stuff and then complain about men looking at them.
     
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  14. Gooding

    Gooding Fapstronaut

    You already have a judgement about this. Doesn't sound like you really want to learn. Rather looks like you want to complain. I wonder in that case why would women tell you their reasons.
     
  15. Gooding

    Gooding Fapstronaut

    Men or women, they wont complain if you look at them. They will complain only if you stare at them because that is creepy. You should have some open conversation with girls your age in your neighborhood or family. Could be eye opening.
     
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  16. @Gooding Why to even wear these kinds of transparent leggings then? Roam naked.
     
  17. Man, it was like completly naked..at first i thought she has wore nothing..after that i came to know that it is some kind of transparent leggings and it was all tight..not only me but every men including that crazy 80 years old were looking at her particular parts.
     
  18. If it is a fetish, then every men in that road may have that fetish becoz everyone seems to be looking at their particular parts..at the same time a well dressed girl will not be stared more often.
     
  19. At first they wear all this kinds of transparent tight clothes exposing thight body, then atleast 95% men in streets stare them, then they scream women are not safe. Well dressed women are stared often less.
     
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  20. I've never adhered to a rule like that. I usually gawk like an imbecile. I'm definitely going to start practicing this now. Thanks!
     
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