Why do I crush so hard on girls I can’t have?

Deleted Account · May 23, 2019

Reuby said: ↑

why do I fall in love with girls that already have boyfriends. It destroys me
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You have a real problem, when these girls fall in love with you, just because you did go on a streak.

Deleted Account said: ↑

Welcome to the 21st century where every girl above 18 is taken. Welcome also to the century where you have to hit fast on the girl you like and forget her fast if she's been taken. Goodluck buddy in finding the single one.
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Relationships nowadays tend to be Tarzan-style: Only let go of the previous liana once you have a good grip on the next one.

Deleted Account · May 23, 2019

Reuby said: ↑

why do I fall in love with girls that already have boyfriends. It destroys me
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Don`t worry man I`m in the same position but Im sure youll get a girl one day, Just keep on moving through life.

Deleted Account · May 23, 2019

drac16 said: ↑

I believe that girls are like toilets. They're either taken or full of crap.
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True, thats the cliche these days.

Deleted Account · May 24, 2019

BecomeMaster said: ↑

TL;DR below.

You don't have self-control. That means being able to have crushes on other women when you want, and to not have them when it's not a good time. I am trying to learn this, because I realize I'm just wasting my time with crushing on women. I don't know what your outlook on marriage is, but I'd just keep an eye open for potential parters until you meet someone, and then you can let loose those controlled feelings as if that wonderful person was your first love.

Generally, I find with myself that I crush on girls a lot when I don't really have a known direction, or goal, in my life, and if I am not busy. I'd encourage you to look more towards making a successful career and hobbies, to the point that you are masterful in your trade and social skills that you can then use your higher social status to get an upperhand in finding a single lady who is right for you. It takes a lot of willpower and motivation to focus on your own life rather than pretty girls, but eventually, you will get the better social status and actually gain self-control with crushes over time, so you can discern how to not fall in love with girls that destroy you, as you said.

TL;DR: Find one thing to do (career- or hobby-wise) do it well. And practice so much that you'll forget pretty girls and instead highten your social value to women.

Hope this helps.
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Wow! You don't sound like a 16 year old. Absolute truth, can't agree more. Just curious - what do you think is a major influencer on your personality? - it is books or parents or school or something else?

Inner-Freedom · May 24, 2019

No harsh feelings but there are 7billion people on the planet, and your worrying about the women that has a boyfriend. You have no idea how lost we are to believe that the girl with the boyfriend is one that destroy's you. Let no one take your Inner-Freedom.

Deleted Account · May 29, 2019

1.all girls have boyfriends

2.i cant have even girls i dont like

3.most men dont get laid

4.feel better now

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