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Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by mrhonk1288, May 4, 2019.
when a man does nofap women chase him so hard even though they ignored him before, why is this?
I have not experienced this (I'm a married old guy) but my guess is
He is more confident and
He knows himself more deeply
and both of these are attractive traits in people
Done 6 months hardmode and other 5 months noporn.
Never experienced a bit of what you talk about...
Probably there's nothing depending on the external changes. The attraction mode he's talking about is due to a related personal change. You know, abstaining from porn and masturbation is not something irrelevant.
They don't respond to nofap! They respond to the confident man who is clearly putting in some kind of hard work to better his life.
Good joke, look how I laugh.
I believe it has something to do with the accumulated energy the man has. Women can pick up on that stuff, even if they don't understand why they are interested.
Ha! I thought you meant the forum!
Pheromones and energy.
To make the whole process even more difficult, that's an obstacle that you will find in your path, if you are truly committed, you will ignore the girls, if not you will fail and have to start all over.
I actually experienced this on two occasions, the 1st was the first two weeks when I started NoFap in 2015, no doubt about it I was getting the looks and everything that some nofappers speak of and this had never happened before, this ended due to a flatline that came in the third week of my streak. The 2nd time was in 2017 when I was on a 120+ streak, I got contacted online by a girl who previously had lost interest in me but now all of a sudden wanted to speak to me, unfortunately the streak came to an end after we sexted (even stranger is that I had asked for dirty pics months before and she never gave it so for her to give it to me while I was on my 120 day streak I found strange and could be more than a coincidence). So yh I think the attraction is real but you have to reach a high stage in the recovery process before you can really experience it.
Of course even people who fap regularly can still attract women so I guess its quite a strange thing why doing Nofap on a long streak can get you attention for some people.
But that's just my own subjective experience, I don't think its complete bs when people say they've attracted someone on a high streak.