Why are long standing Members pending deletion.

Discussion in 'NoFap Technical Support' started by Star Lord, Jan 22, 2017.

  1. Star Lord

    Star Lord Fapstronaut

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    I want to know why 2 long standing members, who have been helpful to people since joining, are pending deletion?

    I won't put names unless given permission by them but I would like answers. Because I believe these 2 members to be good people.
    @Rubidium @matthewmammothrept @alexander @ILoathePorn @giggleshmack

    Firstly I believe suspension and or deletion should be strictly reserved for totally rule breaking things like uploading porn or trying to recruit for some radical group etc.

    I believe that differences in opinions, views, attitudes, personalities etc should not be subject to suspension or deletion if this is the case, as people should understand that this is a fact of life and that everyone is different. From that we should all have hard skins and learn to not take these differences to heart.

    I am saddened that these 2 members are being subjected to this level of, to put it bluntly exile. Especially with the personal troubles they are having to face at the moment. They need somewhere such as this site to unwind and offload their thoughts.
    I don't think it's right for them to be up for deletion. Especially with one of them being a contributing donor. Their financial input would feel worthless to themselves and be money wasted, literally...if they get deleted.

    I know I'm just a member, but do the right thing. Don't let them get deleted.
     
    Last edited: Jan 22, 2017
  2. Reuby

    Reuby Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Account deletion is a voluntary feature. These two members have chosen to delete their accounts.
     
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  3. Star Lord

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    But why, I want to know why they feel they want to leave. Who has upset them. That persons needs to be made responsible.
     
  4. Star Lord

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    When I wake up in 7 hours I want to know why, because 2 people who are closely associated here don't both voluntarily (or not) decide to delete accounts for no apparent reason at the same time.

    This troubles me.
     
  5. letter

    letter Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Hey, @Star Lord,

    I'm glad that you're looking out for the other community members.

    Even under the best of circumstances, it is not pleasant to see someone go. Even more-so is when it doesn't seem to make sense. As such, I wish there were good & clear cut answers that I could give to you. However, to do this would be inappropriate as I do not have authorization from these people to speak on their behalf as to why they are leaving.

    If I were to misrepresent them, they would be unable to come back and speak on their own behalf. I do not know everything and am bound to misspeak for them somewhere. Well, they could come back to speak for themselves, but they would need to rescind their accounts deletion. So, knowing this much, I will respect their wishes to leave and let them leave as peacefully as I am able.

    I also cannot give my account for why I personally believe they are leaving. It would be akin to speaking behind their backs. If they are not here, choosing to not want to be here, I am bound to treat this as though this space is behind them.

    Sorry that my answer is a non-answer. But I must do this as it sets a tone for everyone else who may ever consider leaving. If someone wants to go, they can know that they can do so in confidence that they'll be respected as they head out.

    What I can say is that I wish both of these members all the best as they go forward in their lives. They both have my respect in unique ways, and knowing some of their strengths, I believe they can do well. If they choose to come back, we're always ready to pick up and carry forward as we always have.
     
    Last edited: Jan 22, 2017
  6. IGY

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    This is not the first time that they have been Pending Deletion at the same time. It seems that when one decides to go the other follows. It is somewhat like a Pending Deletion pact - 'you stay, I stay. You go, I go'. Only they can explain why.
     
  7. Star Lord

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  8. Star Lord

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    Hmmm, still it's not one sided, something or someone else had to be involved in upsetting the balance and leading to the decision of pending deletion...
    Curiouser and curiouser.
    There's a conspiracy here I'm sure.
     
    Last edited: Jan 24, 2017

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