Why am I leaving NoFap; The truth about this community

Pfft, like anyone here is going to let some 19 year old kid preach to them about how they’re spending their day, or their lives for that matter.

 

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Some people always need their public Swan Song. lol

 

Then go away already, nobody cares why you're leaving. If it didn't work for you for whatever reason too bad, doesn't mean porn is acceptable whatsoever just because you don't have a problem with it. All of us here struggle every damn bloody day to get over it, in hopes of feeling more human again.

Again, pretty stupid coming into an addiction forum telling us your bs nonsense. Hilarious really.

 

I found it funny if you replace porn with drug!

Here is the masterpiece!

First, drug addiction may become a real issue, I have no doubt.
But I'm leaving this forum and drug addiction based sites FOR GOOD!

Why?
Not saying it was waste of my time; because it wasn't. It would however become one if I decided to stay here for any longer.
And now I'm writing this short post because someone might think about it and make wise decision after me sending this post.

What makes me to leave:
What I've found here is that VAST MAJORITY (95%>...) if not ALL of the active forum contributors are people with roughly several hundreds if not few thousands of posts WITHIN ONE YEAR!
But wait, here's more: these posts are LONG! Not to mention time these people spend on reading another long posts on the forum.

But wait!
Why would I care?

Well let me tell you.
You should care BECAUSE it shows how boring one's life can be.
Yes. These people have so boring lives that posting on such forums is one of the best activities they can participate on regular basis.
And this is insane! Not having enough REAL problems in their lives makes them to spend hours and hours searching the streets and inhailing cocaine that impairs condition of their brains making them to look for a problems so they could have a sense of their miserable lives and find some drug addict mates to talk with about their "great work" because they kept themselves busy for sake of being busy just to not sniffing for 17 days.

WOW!
Doesn't matter whether it's heroin, LSD, some weed... or crack; they do not differ from themselves.

Why?
NoCrack has a very noble course (has it?), just like the rest of them; but they apparently not working very well because they congregate wrong people, very prone to focus on trifles instead of reality.

Think about that for a moment;
People are DYING all over the world because they have no food, water, because of wars... And you? I'm going to guess that ALL of you have at least bearable conditions in life so you have a place to sleep, crack in your fridge...
And that's where your ignorance, lack of intelligence and gratefulness shows up; you're trying to persuade yourself that your life is shit because you enjoy eating mushrooms.

Just what the *fuck*
Holy crap! I must admit; the fact of you consuming drugs/hallucinating is worse than dying from blood loss or suffering hunger for years, and you also have a great reason to fell ashamed and/or guilty; what if you were the one who's a thief, rapist or a murderer? Phew, that's nothing! You're watching purple penguins talking with vegan tigers!! THAT is a reason for feeling shame or guilt!


No. My life isn't that boring to engage in this kindergarten.
And yes, there are people who are truly addicted and this site SHOULD be helping them, but I'm afraid it isn't.... Because it's flawed; most of the informations here are opinions, not scientific facts.

At least try to think.
Is this normal to... Hmmm.... Keep yourself busy just for sake of being busy... Just to avoid boredom... So you can hold off and not do this thing that your beloved cured drug addicts told you not to do because in their opinions it's bad?

It's up to you to come up with the answer...
I'm aware that most of you won't get it. And that's fine. Your reality, opinion or anything won't affect MY reality
I am however hopeful that at least one person will leave this thread illuminated and truly inspired to stop giving a *fuck* about bullshits on National Institute on Drug Abuse, NoCrack, tv and all of these fell good guru's phrases about what's good and what's bad.
(No, females DO NOT like bad boys and no, they don't care about your pseud lifestyle design showing how interesting type of person you are...)



And finally...
I can tell you something if you like to taste my life a little.
I assume you're "reading this" somewhere in the middle of the day and have nothing to do this evening or afternoon.
(Well certainly you don't, otherwise you'd not be reading this right now...)
If you're up for a little challenge then go for it:
Open your eyes for a moment and HALLUCINATE yourself lying in a hospital bed after some horrible accident that made you lose feeling in both arms and legs.
But wait, that's not all!
Your whole family, relatives and best friends have died.... You are the only survivor.
Now doctor tells you that you'll be disabled for ever, and YOU know that there's really no one to look after you now...

Now open you freaking eyes and wake up.
Wow, you are healthy... How come.
But you were never grateful about this fact, were you?
Hoping that weather behind your window is tolerable I want you to go out for a stroll and think about other things you can be grateful for. Could be some basic stuff like food, clothes... Eyes... This beautiful lawn... The fact that you're alive... Whatever.
Now when you get back read through some bullshit sites persuading you that you are complete loser just because you enjoy doing whatever you're enjoying to do - in this case, consuming drugs and making everyone worry.
After you finish, laugh your ass off about how ungrateful and stupid these scribbles are.



That's it. I am not an idiot and I doubt if there'll be at least few who will do what I've suggested on this site... But hey, who knows...
And one more - courage is doing things you're afraid of.

Best wishes preluded with my cold shower rant!

PS: This post is NOT for real drug addicts - smelling cocaine few times a week is not an addiction BUT injecting it at school in the toilet, at work... or any other public places... everyday... every few hours... unfortunately isn't normal. If you're the one that's addicted - don't take my rant to your heart (apart of the part of being grateful for what you've already got)

 

Some of the posts in here are very positive and uplifting, thanks for creating this thread. I found it very entertaining (better than watching TV) to say the least, and I took a lot from this.

I also liked the part where you didn't leave.

All of the best on being free from Porn, if that's what you feel is best for you.

Goodbye, if you were going?

 

Just removed this guy from my ignore list and boy was it worth it! His whole shtick involves presenting an incoherent nonsensical argument and then calling you stupid if you disagree. That's the way it's been since his first argument from his journal. He said he would go 90 days PM-free but he failed and here he is saying nofap is bullshit. It doesn't matter because he always thought nofap was bs ever since is first post. No amount of days PM-free would change that. He tried to school us with this thread and it backfired tremendously. This thread just highlighted how much of a failure @IsPornReallyThatBad? is for the rest of the community to see. He could just delete it to save face but the damage has already been done.

 

Masturclickbaiting. It's a thing.

 

I was actually trying to read some of it this time and boy... You sound fucking delusional, stupid, and in need of some serious help, how can you compare such horrible tragedies or other people's pain to porn addiction and what we're going through? It'd be like telling an alcoholic that's trying to quit that he's a loser for doing so and his problems aren't that bad so he should be grateful for what he has in life, or tell a diabetic that they're not dead so they should be thankful for being alive because there's kids starving in Africa or some bs like that.

Everyone suffers in their own way and something truly painful for them may not be painful to you, either way just because somebody is suffering doesn't mean you have to suffer for no reason because of them. If I lost my legs do you have to feel pity or suffer in any way because of that? No, that's just stupid and I have no idea how those thoughts even form in a person's brain, because it honestly doesn't make any sense.

I'm also apparently unintelligent, and arrogant for wanting to remove something negative from my life. OP sounds bored, miserable and depressed with life so making excuses and belittling people that are actually trying makes him feel better, so that way he can have people feel like shit and fail like himself.

And bloody hell, that's the worst spelling and grammar I've seen in a long time, it takes my OCD to a whole new level. lol

 

And honestly, Sam has the perfect quote for this occasion.

 

So, you're leaving, because people here are actually making effort to change their ways? And because they actually read and respond to other messages?

I agree totally. Life is fucking boring. But that has nothing to do with this site. More to do with reading your posts.

Really to be honest, I think you're just porn producer and you're butthurt about the fact that people dislike your content. Well we have freedom to do that. Have a nice day.

 

With out this place, there is no way I could have made it to day 320 with no P&M. It's properly the most hardest thing I have ever done in my entire life. I spent a lot of time reframing my mindset to the point where I hate P&M and how it screwed my life over. I spend hours reframing my mindset, writing my journal and breaking it down to see where all the triggers were.

In the first 3 months, there where many moments I wanted to give up. I didn't know what flatline was and why I felt so horny at night. I was scared until i realise it was all normal. It hit me hard when I realised we are all going through the same thing. Without this forum I properly jump from doctor to an other doctor with out knowing what the real issue was. I had all these uncontrollable urges that will strike me at night.

There are still porn urges in my mind that still needs time to time rewire itself. I'm 80 percent healed but there is still that 20 percent unfortually will take time to heal. I need about an other year but everything is pretty much auto pilot.

That being said, I do feel there is a time to leave. In 2019 I be writing my story here if i'm completely healed. However if I'm not completely healed, there is no way I'm leaving. I'm going to find ways to 100 percent heal myself.

It's taken quite a long time to type up this post but it's been worth it I don't feel my time has been wasted

 

I tip my fedora to your genius level intellect oh enlightened one, please, teach me how I can be as awesome as you!

 

I'm starting to think this guy might be an expert level troll, in which case thats honestly hilarious. If not then its still hilarious albeit for different reasons. Theres something strangely uplifting about some of the people I see posting/interacting on the forums every day coming together to tell this pretentious douchecanoe to go away.

 

OP just wants attention, otherwise he would have just left quietly already (without making a topic like this). The fact that he is coming back to read the responses and is even trying to act like a victim now (which is insane ...don’t provoke people if you don’t like negative reactions) proves he’s just an attention seeker.

 

lolz. I only really post at night, Fair enough, its a free world (most places) and he may do as he pleases. Whats wrong with staying on NoFap all day? They wont be on here forever. Very few things in this world last the test of time. Goodluck in your journey my friend

 

addiction, is when you can't quit something, that you need it, you get headache after quitting, and people sometimes want an better perspective, and it seems your in pain, but What I do agree, is you have to reduce your time on the internet and , use those time into something productive and bro reading man cmon go fuck yourself man, tupac reads, all the great people reads, obviously it's boring but we program our mind to make it fun because we need it, in this day of age, and I bet your a gamer, gaming is the same as spending your time on a screen so that makes you a loser, and porn is for losers but what makes them drawn to it, is because of pleasure, but when we can master pleasure, we aren't losers and people really do notice that, so we difffrent out here and you see benefits but isn't that good that means where progressing and my man, progress equels happines but sharing it is happines too, which that's the real reason why people share there journey, because it's like what I gone trough and then sharing that, ya know man

 

your profile is, is porn really bad, that means you don't know shit, I bet your streak is bad, go and experience it , get a big streak and then come back and tell us it's shit, get atleast 90 days if your not addicted