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Discussion in 'NoFap Technical Support' started by Immor, Apr 17, 2015.
I must ask again....why do you watch porn? What does it do for you?
indeed you are a real man - you can watch porn without wanking.
wow! be proud of yourself. tinker yourself a medallion.
enough fun for today.
i just watch it for 10 to 20 minutes once in 5 days just for time pass i think now i should also stop it .. Because i am not getting pleasure from PORN now.. that think i tried to explain to you peoples that if you stop fap for 2 months or 3 months then automatically you will not get pleasure from PORN also..
jelous peoples ....
So, real men watch porn and don't MO? That seems kind of silly. Why bother? Are you trying to desensitize yourself to sex? Don't you know that's what P does whether or not you MO? Why are there so many people with PIED? Don't you want to be sensitive? Don't you want to turned on by real women in your life instead of parade of fake digital women?
And if you try arguing for watching P without MOing on a self control level, why don't you just spend your time doing something that actually improves yourself? Wouldn't that be more control, and more beneficial.
The bottom line is, I don't care what you choose to do with yourself. If you want to watch P, go for it. But don't go touting it as the 'real man' way. That's just bluster and garbage.
cute hipster i dont want to convince you - or something like that. watch porn it is your choice.
in my first journey - 104 days hard mode - i had exactly the same doubts. someone above said rationalization - that is true!
your brain is playing every damn trick to get that pornstuff.
first i watched 2 minutes - afterwards 5 minutes - then i said: fuck it i must wank!
you will get pleasure from porn - because your brain is ill. it wants that stuff. it wants the release which PMO gives you.
in this challenge you must be honest to yourself. that is the most important thing. otherwise stop it and go back to your old life.
For me, and just speaking from my experience and what I believe I've been learning about PMO addiction, watching porn would mean putting more and more images into my brain whether or not I was fapping. That accumulation of images in the brain would keep me sick and I expect would continue to cause problems with real intimacy. I'm here and doing this for recovery from those problems and a big part of that recovery is the reduction and hopefully removal of porn imagery from my memory. I need to clear out the brain, not stuff more harmful things back into it.
lol i am on day 63 of nofap.... i will never go back to old life now because i learned how to prevent maturbation .. you know whats the main reason of mine to started nofap is over maturbation i am victim of over maturbation so now i completly stopped it .. and the sperms inside me are still inside me they are curing my body and my health .. i am feeling Great energy and Great improvements so PORN for me is not a Problem now .. Because i am on a stage where i will never go back to maturbation thats it
it is your challenge - you are making the rules.
my problem was only this point:
you are not doing noPMO when you are watching porn. you are doing noMO.
this is also your choice - if you want to accept this statement.
and again it is your challenge - your game. good luck.
This shit is getting fucking ridiculous. People all over the forum are starting to believe this shit. Stop spreading lies and misinformation. Certain people are causing people to think it is okay to watch porn or masturbate in moderation. That masturbation is healthy. That testing your willpower by keeping yourself from fapping while watching porn is a good way to practice stopping.
All of this is bullshit. Do not believe their misguided lies!
no more discussion about it now ..
I once thought that I was over my addiction after a certain amount of days. In fact, I had gone 96 days with no PMO. I was feeling on top of the world, just like you. Then my world came crashing down around me, and my supposed "recovery" ceased to be.
I'm not saying that you're going to fall like I did. All I'm saying is, I worry about people, especially younger people like yourself, who've gone a month or two without relapse and assume that their problems with porn and/or masturbation are behind them for good.
If you choose to watch porn, CH, then that's your choice. I just think your logic for doing so is a bit flawed, and a bit like telling an alcoholic to "test his strength" by going to a bar and just sit there, watching others drink and have fun doing so.
I've given my two cents. Just don't get cocky, my friend.
we have different abstinence-choices here:
noP - no Porn
(no PM - no Porn Masturbation - i mean only Orgasm. i swear this is possible - i did it two times - damn i was so horny!!!)
noMO - no Masturbation Orgasm
noPMO - no Porn Masturbation Orgasm (sex is allowed)
hardmode - nothing is allowed, absolutely no sexual release (going into a forest and screaming the whole day is allowed)
so everyone is trying somehow to get rid of this shitty disease called porn - for sure there are different ways.
this post was great - like a real monk - i will tinker myself a medallion. maybe i will reward myself with some PMO - of course not just kidding!
i must go sleeping now. good night.
Umm, I don't know what forum you guys are from, but I am from nofap. You know, the place that, on the front of the fucking site, says challenges to abstain from porn and masturbation. You can not and will not get over either of these unless you quit both. Plain and simple. If someone who was addicted to say cocaine and eventually moved up to meth, would it be okay for them to stop doing meth and keep doing cocaine simply because they believe they had a problem with only meth?
This is getting fucking ridiculous. I am not just going to set by and watch people be mislead and then one day come crashing down because someone mislead them.
I know you mean well by the whole "we have different challenges here" thing, but I take this shit very seriously. We may have "different" challenges, but we all should be trying for the same goal. That is what this place was made for and person after person seems to be making their own interpretations of it.
Although I totally agree with you but your language is becoming very offensive. Calm down man.
Sorry Kurapika, you probably wouldn't like to be around me irl lol, but yes I apologize for using such harsh language. I am actually not upset or anything, that is just how I talk.
read my signature. what do you read there? maybe hardmode?
in my opinion hardmode is the only way to get rid of this shitty disease called PMO - but it is really extrem hard (or noPMO for people with girlfriend/wife of course).
everything else is just dancing on a tightrope.
why u peoples are crying? if u want quit PMO then dont watch porn dnt maturbate If u like ur own way to quit PMO then go for it dont listen anyone if you dont want to follow someone's method.. no need to cry understand
damn you are persistent.
dont tell that you are doing noPMO when you are watching porn - that is lying - otherwise i will call chuck norris.
ok cute hipster (the real man with full body and mind control) - go on watch porn and have fun.
this was my last post in this thread. bye!