What essentially defines who are you? Is it your thoughts, your emotions, how you process those emotions, or thoughts? Is it your physical appearance, your clothes, your shoes? Let me take you through my thought process... Question: Who are you in the eyes of someone else? I believe its the summation of your physical expression. Think about it, how does anyone define who you are? how do you even define who you are? Its your actions, what you do. How do you it. The choices you make. Whether you're rich or poor. That is truely who you are. These are the things that define us in the physical world. They represent your drive, your past, maybe even your future. If I tell you don't judge a book by its cover, then unless you have some kind of ailment, what doesn't the cover show? Are you talking about personality? Lets see, now what is personality? Its the way you treat someone, how you treat yourself, right? If you have a nasty personality, then you will generally treat someone bad, as well as yourself. The reason they're nasty is because they beat themselves up over their own past, they don't allow themselves to be happy, neither anyone around them. If you have a awesome personality, then you will generally be pretty nice on average. Good clear upbringing. Or just Strong. Where does this personality stem? Our background. Our experiences in the past. These shape the way we see the present, even our future. So, in my opinion, who cares about the pages. Next time you go out there, or even in your own house, think about how you are defining yourself. Think about how you are defining other things, and their perceptions. You are the literal cause of how people treat you. You make choices that demand respect, you get respect. You make choices that let people see you as weak, then people will walk all over you. Hey I'm open to criticism, tell me if I am wrong.