When Unclothed?

Dear Friends

I am looking for some help from those who might know what my problem is,I shall start by telling you my history ,I have been attracted to femdom fetish since a very young age and masturbated to the fantasy even before the arrival of porn,after the arrival of porn there was an ability to realise my fetish and I used to do PMO to femdom fetish porn, I have also consulted the services of dominatrices twice in my life and realized some of my fantasies in real life.overall I can say that my Libido has been based on Femdom Fetish

considering my vanilla life,I have had few girlfriends and I have had foreplay with them,due to the conservative culture I come from the girlfriends I had when I was young did not agree to have intercourse when I was younger,but I can remember me having very strong erections during the time I had foreplay with them even though during this period I strongly desired femdom.so after my relationship with them broke up after sometime and I remained not having any intimate connections during this time and I was totally satisfied with PMO to femdom porn and also MO to femdom fantasy.

Recently I met a women,and started a relationship ,when we get intimate during foreplay when she remains clothed I have a full erection but when my partner became naked I totally lost erection,and was unable to have intercourse.

Why do you guys think this happened to me is it because of my addiction to PMO or due to my femdom fantasy addiction which I had since early childhood?

Can NOFAP help my situation? I have been doing nofap for about 45 days with 2 relapses ?

I will be very grateful if someone on this site can help me.

 

Thank you Varun Chopra for your reply and encouragement

From my understanding of what a flatline is its a period of decreased libido, I think I had one but when I started that I had some private time with my girlfriend, and led to the situation I described earlier where I was fully erect when she was clothed and immediately after she became naked I lost erection and I could not have intercourse, however this incident caused me to have a relapse afterwards because I found some audio femdom videos on youtube accidently which really played to my fantasies,any way now I have gone about 8 days after the relapse, and I do feel a decreased libido, is this the flatline period?

Yes I have noticed the morning erection on some days but I don't remember having it every single day

 

Thank you so much roady for taking your valuable time, your kind reply and blessings May God Bless you too

I think your guess about my childhood relationship with my mother is correct, I think my mother didn't have much time for me because she concentrated on her work, and she was a bitter woman due to many problems she underwent during that time

Please explain to me how it has effected this fetish?

I think your analysis of why I didn't get excited with my girlfriend naked is absolutely correct, But do you know how I can and have normal intercourse with her,so that she can receive some pleasure and one day I have a family,she is already very dissatisfied with our sex life,I fear she might leave, she also loose confidence in herself she thinks she is not attractive,

Problem is I don't know what the facades or the deep pain inside is

Thanks again and I appreciate your help very much

 

What is the reason ?