When a female rebooter says she is looking for a female AP, males please don't apply

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by matthewmammothrept, Aug 25, 2016.

  1. matthewmammothrept

    matthewmammothrept Der Rebütermensch
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    This has become an increasing problem in this forum section. Please respect the wishes and preferences of the OP. If you do not fit the criteria she has laid out, i.e. being female, move on to another thread.

    The above does not apply to people who are transgendered, non-binary, gender fluid or in any way feel themselves to be a woman even if their biological sex is not female. However we hope you will be honest with your potential AP in disclosing your biological gender.

    Thanks,

    The Moderation Team
     
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  2. R1111444

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    ye i see it too much and its shame to Fapstronaut
     
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  3. LetsGetBigGODDAMMIT

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    female posts, instantly 10 replies from men. Man posts, 2 days passes he has maybe 2 replies
     
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  4. Jen@8675309

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    Women are still a novelty here, and they attract a lot of attention from being so.
     
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  5. Wannariseabove

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    Who does that? That goes without saying. A male/female AP is a slippery slope.
     
  6. Jen@8675309

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    We used to have a problem with women seeking female APs but getting bombed with requests from guys. It seems to have been severely curtailed though.
     
  7. fluets

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    two of those replies are the man wondering if anyone has seen his topic ;)

    females are a novelty on these forums but at the end we're all people trying to defeat the same thing.
     
  8. The human failure

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    I just need enough hormones xD

    Give me a year or two.
     
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  9. matthewmammothrept

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    That's up to you. If you identify as female while being biologically male, there's no reason you shouldn't be able to apply.
     
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  10. PsycheMagician

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    This is bullshit. If the guy is born with a penis, he is a male.
     
  11. PsycheMagician

    PsycheMagician Fapstronaut

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    Well, nowadays they can call you a "homophobic" just because you are telling the truth. Many people will argue that gender is a "social construction". Lol. Just being clear: this is a bullshit. Gender are biological stuff, even if the guy dont sees himself as a man, he is. There is no such thing like a "non biological female".
     
  12. OutsideTime

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    I think the point here is about what the requester wants. I'm sure @The human failure would be honest in disclosing their biological state, and thus leaving the matter to the requester if they are comfortable with the arrangement.

    This topic need go no further than this.
     
  13. Alexander

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    Same goes for men. If a male wants a male AP, please respect that. If a female wants a female AP, please respect that. For any other criteria, just respect them because it's their thread and we want to keep this section organized.

    This has been a guideline since 2013, nothing new.

     
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  14. noonoon

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    It's mystifying that a bunch of sexual perverts would do this. Sheesh.
     
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  15. Jen@8675309

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    There are no 'perverts' here, just people seeking help to battle their addictions. Be respectful.
     
  16. Gucci Gang

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    Mostly because Men are Attracted to Women

    Especially Horny ones.
     
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  17. Thank you for that enlightening revelation :rolleyes:
     
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  18. Gucci Gang

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    Ikr

    Someone had to say it.
     
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  19. Hiraeth

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    I would never want a female AP because we can not relate to each other as good as two guys since sexuality works different for males and females.

    I love that, things work both ways not just one way.

    I get your point, bet being lenient and tolerant to these people, who, in no way harm you, wouldn't make your crown lose a pearl.

    But seriously, if a woman want a female AP she could just ignore male applicants or ignore-button them or whatever she likes, I don't get these kind of people who always want to make an elephant out of a fly.
     
  20. icandoallthings

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    What's sad is a post has to be made specifically to address this. Come on guys...
     
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