WHAT is your CURRENT STATUS with PORN ( MUST READ)

WHAT MOVES ME AWAY FROM PORN ?

IDENTIFYING INHIBITORS

The factors that inhibit forming a relationship with porn vary widely and often interrelate to one another. If you are turned off to porn because of how it can interfere with emotional closeness with a partner, you will be less likely to surround yourself with it, and thus come in contact with it less often. Similarly, if using porn goes against your religious or spiritual values and you have matured enough to feel more confident about your sexuality, these two inhibitors may work together to encourage you to become less involved with it. The stronger the inhibitors you have in your life, the more likely you will move away (and stay away) from having a relationship with porn.



The count below can help you determine what factors reduce the likelihood of your either developing or maintaining a serious involvement with porn. Count each item with which you agree

1) I lack easy access to porn and want to keep it that way

2) I find porn boring and uninteresting.

3) I dislike the way people and sex are portrayed in porn.

4) I prefer getting information about sex from non-porn resources.

5) I feel good about myself as a sexual partner.

6) I don’t like the idea of getting turned on by strangers.

8) I don’t want to risk becoming reliant on porn.

9) I feel embarrassed and uncomfortable using porn.

10) My life is too busy to include doing porn.

11) I would not want to offend or emotionally hurt an intimate partner by using porn.

12) It is important to me to be honest with others.

13) Porn is contrary to how I think about sex

14) I enjoy creating sexual fantasies on my own

15) I enjoy masturbation more when it does not involve porn.

16) Porn leaves me feeling sexually dissatisfied.

17) I do not like how I feel when I use porn

18) I have effective ways of dealing with life stresses that don’t involve porn

19) I do not like having an orgasm while watching or reading porn

20) I prefer using porn with a partner rather than alone.

21) I value being truthful and open with people I love.

22) Porn does not belong in homes or workplaces.

23) I think children should be protected from exposure to porn.

24) I think of porn as an “adolescent” sexual activity.

25) I find porn overstimulating.

26) I have better things to do than look at porn

27) The older I get, the less interested in porn I have become

28) My best sexual experience have been with someone I cared about

29) I enjoy being fully present during sex

30) I don't want to risk Getting caught using porn

31) I dislike the porn industry & don't want to support it


Total score :


This factors that help prevent you from becoming overly attached to porn.


WHAT TAKES ME DEEPER INTO PORN ?

IDENTIFYING ACCELERATORS

The count below can help you determine what factors leading you into a strong relationships with porn

Count each item with which you agree:

1) I hide my porn from others.

2) I lie to maintain my contact with porn.

3) I daydream about times when I can use porn.

4) I am entitled to use as much porn as I want.

5) I have an addictive nature.

6) I am related to someone who has a porn problem.

7) I maintain a stash of pornography.

8) I turn to porn when I am bored.

9) I would like to experience the sex I see in porn.

10) My friends and contacts are also into pornography.

11) I’m excited by the new high-tech devices that deliver porn.

12) My greatest sexual satisfaction occurs when I am using porn.

13) I use porn when I am feeling distressed and want to feel better.

14) I turn to porn instead of real people for comfort.

15) I continue using porn even though it is inconsistent with my val ues and beliefs.

16) I need to use porn or think about it in order to become sexually aroused.

17) I use porn as my model for how to have sex.

18) My best orgasms have been with porn.

19) I think about porn images during sex with a real-life partner.

20) I like porn that features illegal or abusive sexual activities.

21) I arrange my life to make sure I have regular time to be with porn.

22) I make sure I always have access to porn whenever I might want it.

23) I am most attracted to people who look like porn stars.

24) I need porn as a sexual outlet if I am not in a relationship.

25) I am uncomfortable with masturbation unless I am using porn or thinking about it.

26) I prefer using porn alone rather than with a partner.

27) My sexual interests have become more extreme since using porn.

28) The possibility I could get caught makes porn use more exciting.

29) I become upset at the thought of giving up porn.

30) I have become more involved with porn as time goes by.


Total score:

These are the factors that may be pushing you toward becoming more attached to porn. Whether or not we get pulled deeper into a relationship with porn depends on which set of factors—the ones that floor the accelerator or those that slam on the brakes—are informing the choices we make in our lives. Take a moment to compare your total scores on the “Identifying Inhibitors” and the “Identifying Accelerators”


Which total score is higher ?

Which inhibitors and accelerators do you think impact you the most ?

This information can help you evaluate your present relationship with porn and what direction it’s moving.

Hope it will help you all

Reference : Porn trap

 

@DogDaysOfLife


You have to make a barrier of inhibitors so it will help to stay away from porn accelerators you mentioned 5,7, 8, 14..... Etc are actually some kind of excuses that we make to watch porn . We can avoid it if you have a real commitment to quiet porn for Gud .

 

@LookHeartNoHands

I'm happy to hear that buddy .. You are in the right path

 

@g2stop

Yaa.. I see your point
But a person don't like to watch porn alone may help him to stay away porn

 

@Fallior

Bad sign dude

You have cultivate more inhibitors. Go out side & be more social