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What I have learnt from a 70day relapse/short marathon

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Director_of_My_Life, Jul 11, 2018.

  1. Director_of_My_Life

    Director_of_My_Life New Fapstronaut

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    I have not done this on hard mode so I do not know the feelings, although I have been battling this addiction for over two years now and this is my longest streak I have ever gotten to! I relapsed first on the weekend watching porn and viewing webcam chat sites on my relapse. I have repeated this twice this week so I have had a three day marathon sort of thing.

    #1 thing I have learnt from this massive abstinence is my attitude whilst I was on it, there were a lot of days where I just went through the motions and I could have tried harder at work, moved more proactively and just picked my motivation up, counting the days is great and all but nothing is as great as just getting what needs to be done in your days done and doing it as proactively as possible, what fucks us up is the attitude of just thinking that everything will magically change one day and it will all be lifted in a sense yes that will happen, but your going to have to approach life with a proactive attitude to get shit done!
    I have notice massive changes in my brain dopamine levels on these relapses I can literally feel like my brain has gotten much much stronger and that these relapses arnt shit but one step back in my March that I have been madly striving daily! Relapses are not be all end all do not hold your head in shame and guilt because you are fucking growing my fellow brothers. Another tip is no matter how scary things can get is just do it talk to someone close to you about what your currently scared of doing and they will give you the encouragement you need (accountability partner) these are valuable even if you are not a very socialable person like myself only because I choose to stay focused on what’s more important to me, talk to someone get encouragement and then smash it out and you will unite and connect and feel like being scared of that minuscule problem took up so much time for no fucking reason, in life we fuck up! But you know what we are not on this planet for fucking eternity, time is the most valuable thing so own whatever the fuck needs fixing with cockiness because you should you deserve to be cocky and confident about your fuck ups because we are all equal! Don’t reprimand yourself and get guilty, accept it and prove to yourself and people around you that you are fucking actions and your word is fucking steel. Go fucking conquer the day! Get that fucking workout done! Don’t sit back and watch the time tick, you watch read this fucking post and then Create a excercise ritual and stick to it and start right fucking now go and workout today, or now just do it and PAY COOSE ATTENTION TO HOW FUCKING HOSS AN ALPHA YOU FEEL AFTER BECAUSE YOU FUCKING OWNED IT, you did this you picked yourself up and fucking conquered it, and strength and others hit like that comes, patience is the main ally with action, be patient in your actions that you will grow as tall as the stalk in jack and the bean, you’s are all fucking stars! So go shine and move. I’m out.
     
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  2. r8js

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    Congratulation on ur 70days achievments.
     
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  3. Director_of_My_Life

    Director_of_My_Life New Fapstronaut

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  5. çağla kumeı

    çağla kumeı Fapstronaut

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    how can I get rid of wet dream?
     
  6. Director_of_My_Life

    Director_of_My_Life New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks my bro!
     
  7. Director_of_My_Life

    Director_of_My_Life New Fapstronaut

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    It gets rid of itself, your body is literally hardwired from the masturbation and now that you have refrained yourself from madturbating your body is like wtf and thinks it needs to ejaculate also, we have conditioned our minds to think like that and the fantasy’s are up there, patience man, it’s all apart of the journey!
     
  8. Dogwood

    Dogwood Fapstronaut

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    Anything useful here? (Google):
    *What about wet dreams and porn dreams?* (on YourBrainOnPorn website)
     
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    çağla kumeı Fapstronaut

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