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What happened to my Sex Drive?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by DaddyFatSac, Nov 27, 2018.

  1. DaddyFatSac

    DaddyFatSac Fapstronaut

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    Before starting NoFap, I looked into it and saw that when you stop masturbating you gain back your masculine desire to conquer the world and attract women. I definitely felt this desire for the first week when my sex drive was skyrocketing. But now (Day 14) my sex drive is extremely low. I don’t have that burning desire to attract and seduce women. The best way I can describe how I’m feeling is numb. It’s like I don’t give a shit anymore. Is this normal? Should I continue to keep going if it has such affects on me?
     
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  2. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber Fapstronaut

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    Yes, this happens. It's called dead dick or flatline. Many users report this. I had one so severe my dick actually physically shrunk (only when flacid) and i didn't feel it anymore.

    It's part of the healing process, you're rewiring.

    Your badge is off by the way
     
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  3. D23

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  4. D23

    D23 Fapstronaut

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    Did your drive return ?
     
  5. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber Fapstronaut

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    Yes, it comes back with a vengeance. So it's very risky to relapse.
     
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  6. I have flatline for more than one month now. Depending on your dependence, it may take a long time.
     
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  7. Burning desire to seduce women around you is not normal - you have a lot of things to do in life, so you don't need to focus on others. Nevertheless, sexual drive is really pleasurable thing in relationship. The most important is to have optimal level of drive and use it in a good way.
     
  8. end_it_for_good

    end_it_for_good Fapstronaut

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    Having a libido is fine...
    Having a desire to have sex and going to do that is fine...
    What is the harm in your opinion? @GaryMayor
    There is the reboot, but why not want to have a girlfriend and have sex all the time??

    @DaddyFatSac it's a flat line, it comes back
     
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  9. D23

    D23 Fapstronaut

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    Sex and Libido were made for marriage and making children.
    Praise God.
    I will rid myself of lustful acts and find a good women.
    By his stripes I am healed.
     
  10. Strongly disagree, sex can be pleasurable and is really helpful for maintaining healthy relationship. It is nothing bad. The problem is porn presents us the wrong image of humans sexuality. When you think sex with other person is bad, but you still have needs then you start to masturbate, instead of looking for partner. It is the trap.
     
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  11. D23

    D23 Fapstronaut

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    I agree porn presents a bad image of what sex is. In my next relationship I want to experience a healthy sex life that doesn't involve porn and pray i marry her.
    Ive been dealing with a flatline I believe and its completely gave me time to evaluate how I was abusing myself through over masterbation and penis exercises. Our bodies are a temple and we must not miss treat them or abuse them the pleasures of sex were given to us so we may enjoy sex and make people.
     
  12. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber Fapstronaut

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    It's fine, it was skyrocketing because it was used to being on overdrive. You're not supposed to be sexually aroused so much.

    Give it some time, it will level itself out.
     
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