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What does success feel like?

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by jbastoniv, Aug 3, 2015.

  1. jbastoniv

    jbastoniv Fapstronaut

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    First off, WOW, love making with my wife is the most sublime and incredibly wonderful event! I cannot stress this enough. My sex life with her and my relationship wasn't broke and wasn't bad by any means. But, it was starting, the ED, the DE, etc... The anxiety about getting it up, etc. That is 100% gone!

    I feel so but better not only physically but mentally. No more guilt over hours and hours of porn, knowing you are supporting a vile industry that preys on young women (and young men).

    What's amazing is how fast your mind purges you of these images. Yes, to do pop into my head once in a while, but way fewer and less less, almost non existent.

    I also started a foreskin restoration around the same time of NoFap, it taught me how to touch my penis without a goal of sexual satisfaction. It has really worked and I am over 50% covered 100% of the time and 80% a lot of the time. This has also contributed to more sensitivity and better sex and way more comfort with clothes, circumcision is stupid in my opinion! I am only using a tugging method with no apparatus and it really does work, it just take time.

    Bottom line, life is grand, mind is clear, soul is calm and sex is mind blowing, full body orgasm, for me and my wife!!!!

    Stay strong, the payoff is amazing!!!
     
  2. FreedomIsHere

    FreedomIsHere Fapstronaut

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    That's amazing man! You've made great progress, keep it up! This is motivating and very inspiring, yes indeed the payoff is great!
     
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  3. terminator1

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    I love to hear that bro! Congrulations!
     
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  4. Really happy for you, man.

    Brilliant stuff.
     
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  5. KingGray

    KingGray Fapstronaut

    You're an inspiration bro!!!
     
  6. nomo

    nomo Fapstronaut

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    Great post, thank you.

    Certainly this is a benefit we all desire:
    - love making with my wife is the most sublime and incredibly wonderful event! I cannot stress this enough.

    I too was experiencing this:
    - The starting of the ED, the DE, etc... The anxiety about getting it up, etc.
    - Loss of sensation while making love.
    - Much guilt over hours and hours of porn.
    - Tremendous loss of productivity with so much time viewing pron.

    I'm feeling some of the benefits that you mention, but I think I am too new without accomplishing a long-streak of no PMO to feel all the benefits that you speak of. I've had several relapses and have chosen to focus on not viewing pron as my main goal. I'm not sure if I can stop MO completely, but I have cut back and I'm not viewing porn at all. Sometimes MO is the best way I can get to sleep. I travel for work and that means there can't be any love making with my wife. I find it tough in a hotel room staring at the ceiling trying to get to sleep. Sleep deprivation is a killer, and I need my sleep if I'm to be productive at work.

    Any thoughts on this? Do you think as long as I continue to MO, I won't have a full recovery?
     
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