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What do you think about blue balls?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by RamboErecto, Jun 9, 2018.

  1. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    I mean, i just read that a lot of people after a big steak get those.

    I know some day will be my turn on that, and ill get my own painful blue balls, is for you recomended to do M 1 time to release the body from this pain?

    Also, is good for the body to retain semen when you are in that condition?
     
  2. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    day 79 of 184, blue balls is only a reason to fap period. retrograde ejaculation, sleep leaking wet dreams are natural, hell being awake to. if you ejaculate fully it's masturbating edging same.
    You have to come to grips without gripping it, committed or fap, porn or not, orgasm or not
    me and my wife HARDMODE pmo limited touch, hand holding, no nudity, clean hugs only.
    to me it is or it is not anything else you are only cheating yourself. semen retention is something I am exploring.
     
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  3. EmmyB

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    Men made up the idea of blue balls to give themselves an excuse for sex or masturbation. If you don't ejaculate your semen will be absorbed into your body, it's perfectly normal and healthy. There are monks, priests etc who've worn wet dream preventers since puberty and lived to 90 or 100 with literally not one ejaculation ever. You don't need them!
     
  4. Davidphd1866

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    I am afraid EmmyB is correct. There is simply NO physical "Need" to ejaculate. The urge to do so is strong, as we know.

    Blue balls (the congestion) does exist, but only as a result of stimulation without relief. If you keeps the hands off.....there are no blue balls.
     
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  5. I've had bad blue balls.... after masturbating!

    You can go from having no blue balls, then you PMO and get blue balls afterwards.

    I also got a really bad case from "sexting" with someone, so dont do that.
     
  6. What a load of blue bollocks! You haven't got the balls to know what you are talking about! Blue Balls has got nothing to do with semen (which is not stored in the balls in the first place). It is not a made up thing based on some pretext. No, it is a physiological phenomenon whereby local blood pressure increases in the testicles and surrounding structures. It is called vasocongestion. Btw that is the same thing that causes your little clitoris to get hard, for your nipples to erect etc. :rolleyes:
     
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  7. Steve K.

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    Don’t know if this is helpful, but the handful of times I’ve experienced blue balls I just used it to motivate myself. In my mind it means I’m accomplishing something. The first time started when I was training for an MMA fight in April. Was really painful right before I went to the gym, and I was scared I was gonna somehow get hurt? I even told my trainer, an old school boxer who prolly didn’t wanna hear I had blue balls. But training with blue balls turned into an oddly euphoric experience? IDK, like it helped me push myself ....
     
  8. No, blue balls is real and it's uncomfortable. It will resolve eventually but it can be very uncomfortable.

    What if I said women made up the idea of cramps and other issues during their periods, to get sympathy and days off?
     
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  9. MasterRoshi

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    I trick which has worked for me in the Past (during my PMO addiction), when I was edging for weeks was to close my lips tight like I was blowing through a real small straws and blow air out my lips really hard. It causes the stomach muscles to tighten and can help relieve the pressure. Do this about 10 times as hard and slow as possible.

    I’m on day 80 something of no PMO. And I have yet to have blueballs. I am currently lit engaging in any edging, or any touching. I also don’t have any contact with girls so that might be helping.

    I’m sure if lu have a girlfriend and making out happens or something, that it might be more of an issue, then since I’m not currently physically involved, it hasn’t happened to me.
     
  10. What the heck are wet dream preventers and where can I get them???

    My trouble actually is diurnal and crepuscular emissions as opposed to nocturnal, but still - if there is something that prevents unwanted emissions, please tell me more!
     
  11. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

  12. To reply more directly to the topic:

    I think that blue balls are a good indication of how well I am doing with NoFap.

    I have on a few occasions gotten them from fooling around, heavy petting etc. But, 95% of the time when I have gotten blue balls during NoFap it has been from edging.
    When I am doing really well, not edging and sticking to my goals, I rarely get blue balls. Even if I get super aroused because of a girl I will at most get a little bit of blue balls, but it will fade quickly. When I'm not doing well, I get them so bad that I feel nauseous sometimes and there are times when they last all day long.

    So if your not looking at porn, or p-subs, or spending a lot of time in fantasy and not touching it, you probably won't have much trouble with blue balls.
     
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  13. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    Your dick does not have legs get up and walk away seriously dude everything you just said is the reason why you have blue balls did you get blue balls again just a little happy face on your dick and let it tell you what to do seriously
     
  14. MasterRoshi

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    Have you all noticed that throughout the day it feels like you have a very mild UTI when you drink water?? For me since quitting PMO, it’s like the valves stopping my bladder don’t work as well.

    Or maybe it has to do with these emissions your talking about?

    During my addiction I did do lots of
    extreme anal and some urine fetishes so I would force urination when I was fully erect.
    so maybe this is causing my issue?? Trying to solve this problem.
     
  15. MarinoBigFan1984

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    My blue balls are painful and feel like balloons ready to burst. Only real reason I relapse.
     
  16. Can you just MO, leave out the porn? The porn is the worst part by far.
     
  17. MasterRoshi

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    I’m super curious about this. It seems like everyone’s body and mind is so different.

    I haven’t had any issues with blueballs and it’s been just about 90 days. I’ve also not looked at anything sexual on my phone or computer and I don’t touch myself (including rubbing against my pants or anything) the whole time. Some mornings I wake up with morning wood, but it goes away as long as I don’t entertain it at all.

    Really curious what is causing your blueballs? Is it random? Or are you doing some (anything at all you can think of) that is making this worse??
     
  18. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Porn has nothing to do with my blue balls. I decided to try NoFap after ED pills didn’t work. Porn has never been a concern for me. I could go months without porn before NoFap and never really notice. I decided to do hardmode because I heard it was the most effective reboot type and it’s not like I need porn in my life anyway. My ED is primarily medication related. Has NoFap helped? Yes. Stronger erections, more sensitivity, etc but it takes a long time to see results.

    Basically I usually feel the blue balls about 30 days into a reboot. My balls start to feel heavy and “full”. Again they are like balloons filled with helium. If I’m horny does that help? No but even if I’m not the pressure is still persistent. Finally I get to the point where I literally feel nauseous and sick to my stomach. When I do ejaculate with blue balls the reaction is one of relief not pleasure especially if the release is via your own hand etc vs a woman’s. My last reboot was 83 days and for some reason I didn’t get them but got a super horny rush and relapsed. I’m on day 12 of a new reboot and I can already fill a little pressure in my sacks so I hope the blue balls stay away. I’ve tried all the remedies to fix them other than ejaculation but none relieve the pressure. If you don’t get blue balls be thankful.
     
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  19. MasterRoshi

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    Thanks for sharing. This is interesting. Sorry your dealing with this.

    What does your doctor say about t?
     
  20. MarinoBigFan1984

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    She sees nothing wrong with masturbation in moderation
     
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