pff, tough week. Good that you leave it to the attorneys, that's what they are for. Some people juts cannot be reasoned or talked with especially in these situations with money and emotions involved. Don't blame yourself and remember; sticks and stones... Don't let it. Easier set than done but you and Mourde can do this. Take it one day at a time. Think about the good things in summer. So you'll look back and say "remember that great summer of 2019, yeah we had a great time together with our loved ones. Wasn't there something awful that summer... oh yeah the will"