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Well, here goes nothing

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Submission magician, May 9, 2019.

  1. Submission magician

    Submission magician Fapstronaut

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    This is not my first attempt. I thought if i abstained from orgasm i could fap..i understand now it doesnt work like that. My wife is a pleaser..so if i ever feel the need to bust, I'll just have her give me some head. She actually would do it 10x per day if i allowed it but simply not that interested. The only way i became imterested was by watching some porn to kickstart my libido, which often failed when i moved on to the real thing.

    It got to the point where i would watch porn while we had sex. Not us watching it, but me alone. Im hoping this remedies this whole issue for me
     
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    Submission magician Fapstronaut

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    Update..only on day 10 but have had no desire to watch porn or fap. Everything going well. No wet dreams, although ive never had one. Morning wood most days.
     
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  3. I agree with Tao. it will likely take at least 90 days abstinence to start having normal function without all your "requirements", but you will have to be patient with it. continuing the family growth first may be the best bet and as described above, may allow for more abstinence. and it sounds like your wife is supportive and not ready to leave you if she's thinking she wants another child now...
     
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    Submission magician Fapstronaut

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    90 days will happen once i plant the seed. Looking forward to this for sure. Is it normal to have no desire to watch porn or fap 11 days in? I realize that i am in no way recovered. I am just curious if it wver truly goes away forever
     
  5. it seems everyone's urges wax and wane at different times depending on the circumstances and the person. I know in my experience that every time I think to myself that I am not having a difficult time avoiding PMO or that I my urges have not been bad for a while, it's not too long before the urge rises and becomes VERY tempting. complacency is never good. I don't know about whether urges ever truly go away, but my sense is that old habits die hard, and we are creatures of habit, so it may always be there to a certain extent... only time will tell, I guess. God bless you, brother.
     

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