Well...Had sex with my new girlfriend for the first time......

First off congrats on figuring out that PMO was your issue, and jumping right on the solution, stopping it. Many men take years to figure out this is the problem and even longer to stop. I am female and my ex had PIED but he did not stop as soon as you did. I will note that the first few times we were together I just blew it off as nerves, but as time went on and it kept happening, it really became a problem, and I suspect it may for your partner as well. My ex was 47 at the time and within two weeks of stopping he was able to O from my hand and mouth, he could not for years, he had to use his own hand. Now he had DE but I think it’s likely the same. I am willing to bet that you will be able to perform quite well, realizing of course that if you go back to PMO your problems will start again. If it dos keep happening then I suggest you clue her in as to why, and that you are working on the issue. Otherwise she will likely think it’s her fault and a reflection of your attraction. Good luck.

 

Was going to respond but really couldn't put it any better than GG2002!! Hope all is well!!

 

Yeah I feel you bro, it happened to me about 10 days ago, with a girl I met recently. She was astonishingly hot, but I couldn't mantain an erection and when she started looking for a condom I went soft entirely, and nerves kicked in and well, you know...
I haven't touched myself since, and it's been over two weeks since I last looked at porn.
I hope next time everything works fine, and if not I'll just keep trying, but I know we are doing the right thing.