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Watching porn with a partner

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Chopin42, Nov 8, 2017.

  1. STAR DUST

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    WOW I AM TERRIBLY SORRY TO HEAR THAT. I HAVE HEARD BOTH STATEMENTS. ONE IS THAT IN SINCE THE USE OF PORN HAS INCREASED THAT TRAGIC INCIDENTS SUCH AS THOSE HAVE DECREASED, AND THEN I HAVE HEARD THAT PORN IS A FAMILIAR TRAIT, MARKER, AND PRACTICE OF SOME OF THE MOST INHUMANE SERIAL KILLERS. AGAIN I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT THAT HAPPENED TO YOU. IT REALLY BOTHERS ME WHEN I HEAR STORIES LIKE THAT. I WISH THERE WERE SOMETHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT. MY WIFE WAS ALSO MOLESTED AT A YOUNG AGE, AND AT TIMES I CAN TELL IN THE PAST THAT IT AFFECTED OUR INTIMACY IN THE BEGINNING. I TOLD HER TO TRUST ME AND THAT I WILL NEVER HURT HER, AND ONLY PROTECT HER FOREVER. WE HAVE HAD A GREAT LIFE SINCE THEN. DON'T RECALL THE SOURCES. I AM JUST SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT. WOW THANK YOU FOR BEING BRAVE ENOUGH TO OPEN UP ABOUT YOUR LIFE.
     
  2. Torn

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    Thank you, @STAR DUST. I'm so sorry to hear that about your wife. I'm glad you have a great life now.

    I've heard P use is common among serial killers, too. I imagine the quotes about the incidence of rape decreasing with the increase in porn use is propaganda from the porn industry or from those who are trying to justify their own porn usage. Those "statistics" don't detract from the fact that porn addiction can potentially escalate into other destructive behaviors in the quest for "more, better, different."
     
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  3. STAR DUST

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    WOW. I TOLD MY WIFE THAT IF SHE EVER CHEATED THAT I WOULD BE OKAY WITH IT AND TAKE HER BACK. WE HAVE HAD THAT CONVERSION BEFORE. SHE SAID THAT SHE WOULD NEVER DO SUCH A THING AND THAT SHED REMAIN COMMITTED AND FAITHFUL. I HAVE NEVER CHEATED, BUT THIS IS MY FIRST FAITHFUL RELATIONSHIP. I WAS A PLAYER IN THE PAST AND I WANTED TO PUT A END TO THAT. I PROPOSED ON THE ROOFTOP OF THE LOCAL LIBRARY ON A WARM CALIFORNIA NIGHT 30 sorry one sec..... OKAY I'M BACK MY THREE YEAR OLD IS ADDICTED TO THE WENDY WILLIAMS SHOW! SO WHERE WAS I OH I PROPOSED ONYY 30 DAYS AFTER MEETING HER. IT WAS INSTANTANEOUS AND WE WERE MARRIED 3 MOTHS AFTER MEETING. AND GUESS WHAT I HAVE BEEN FAITHFUL EVERY-SINCE. WE HACVE BEEN MARRIED GOING ON TEN YEARS. I JUST KNEW SHE WAS THE ONE. WITH THAT SAID I HAVE NEVER CHEATED AND EVER WILL BUT I HAVE CHECKED OTHER WOMEN OUT FROM TIME TO TIME. I LOVE A#S SO WHEN I SEE ONE SOME TMES I HAVE THE DICIPLINCE NOT TO LOOK, BUT IN OTHER MOMENTS THOSE YOGA PANTS ARE TO HARD TO DENY AND IGNORE. I WILL ALWAYS BE FAITHFUL SHE HAS EVEN TOLD ME LOOK BUT DON'T TOUCH I TRY NOT TO LOOK. I EVEN HAVE CAUGHT HER CHECKING PEOPLE OUT BEFORE, BUT ITS COOL. BASICALLY IF I CAN CHANGE SO CAN YOUR HUBBY HANG IN THERE WITH HIM. STAY STRONG. BEHIND EVERY STRONG MAN IS AN EVEN STRONGER WOMAN. MY WIFE HAS BROUGHT THE BEST OUT OF ME.
     
  4. @STAR DUST
    Is it maybe possible to write in small characters?
    Please?
     
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  5. STAR DUST

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    AGREED. TO REMAIN I PROPER CONTEXT WHEN I TALK TO MY NOFAP BROTHERS THEY ARE MY BROTHERS. WHEN I TALKED TO MY NOFAP SISTERS AND SO'S YOU ARE MY SISTERS KNOW THAT I WILL ACCEPT YOU ALL4 WHO YOU ARE. FLAWS IN ALL, AND I WILL RESPECT YOU, YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, AND MY OWN. WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER.
     
  6. STAR DUST

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    BABY LETTERS ARENT MY THING. WILL SOMEONE TELL ROADY. I LOVE WHY YOU CHOSE YOUR NAME BY THEWAY
     
  7. Thanks @STAR DUST
    Okay I think I do understand, but when somebody write in capitals I feel attacked and intimidated. I feel like ignoring this persons.

    For in stead you can use the "font size" possibility.
    Like this:
    These are big characters but they are just readable as normal.
    And these are even bigger, but the "shouting effect" isn't within :)
     
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  8. STAR DUST

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    i use to be a player. if i can change so can he. just continue to give him a chance. The elimination of porn and masturbation is a game changer for the harmony of a relationship and commitment.
     
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  9. STAR DUST

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    i love that.
     
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  10. STAR DUST

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    This works
     
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  11. vxlccm

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    p.s. Thanks @Roady for the respectful communication - you are of course right about all those the standards as ancient as our BBS days :)
     
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  12. Yep the BBS's .... Oh boy I was sinning day and night :(

    But thanks for your kind reaction.

    And of course, respect to everybody here. We all worth it to be treated respectful.
     
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  13. Jennica

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    I agree with you and I believe he has!
     
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  14. STAR DUST

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    NOPE IT TAKES MORE THAN IT GIVES, SO YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN THE NEGATIVE.
     
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  15. You got it exactly dude.

    And by the way: already forgotten how to make big size font in stead of the capitols :D
     
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  16. STAR DUST

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    never learned
     
  17. Yeah I recognize, pmo is affecting the memory :p
     

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