Watching others fu%k while masturbating is actually a very disturbing act. * Possibly triggering ! *

It just got so normalized but we were just the first line of guinea pigs for a massive experiment. Gary Wilson in his famous talk said that never before had men access to so many women... and he's right to some extent. But there is a very dark side to this he does not capture.

Most porn and erotic movies don't show solo women. They show intercourse. This is very, very different. This is something men virtually never ever saw before, as sex was usually an extremely private thing. Now it's available for anyone to see in under 10 seconds.

The thing is nobody talks about perspective, but the perspective you have when watching porn/erotica is deeply, deeply disturbing - you are actually inside the room next to other people fucking. Most porn movies show close-ups of actual intercourse and it's definitely not POV because of the angle. That means you're literally 2 or less feet away from a guy's junk and penetration itself. Sometimes the woman stares into the camera (at you), while she's being fu%ked by another guy.

The act is extremely emasculating, even if you don't realize it. It's actually the woman you're sexually interested in and the woman you're attracted to getting owned by another male. Evolutionarily that means you failed and he won. He gets to reproduce and you didn't. He got her, you didn't.

But now comes the even more disturbing part, you're actually masturbating. You're sitting there, "next" to them, masturbating. While this may be triggering to some, this is actually what a cuckold does and there are actual pictures out there of the whole trio: the two having sex and the guy next to them, focused on penetration and stroking himself. I don't want to make anyone break his streak but once you see those pics and realize that that man is actually you, no porn will ever be the same.

The usual answer is that "it's a movie and it doesn't count", but if you take a little bit of time you'll see that it does count because there is no other experience that is comparable and you will always have the same reaction to an act, whether you're next to it or you see it in a clip. Granted, seeing it in a clip dulls the experience and reaction but it's still the same experience and reaction. For example, seeing a guy kicking a cat in real life will most likely make you angry. Seeing the same event captured on film will also make you angry. You will not get angry in real life but celebrate if you see it on film.

Which is why you really need to take a step back and think if you'd ever accept sitting in a room next to another guy fu#king not just any woman but one you're sexually interested in, getting aroused, whipping your dick out, masturbating and ejaculating. While he gets off in/on her. And she watches you.