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want to win from porn taking over my mind(especially anal porn)

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Getting_Free_From_Porn, Sep 5, 2018.

  1. Sep 5, 2018 #1
    Getting_Free_From_Porn

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    I had started the first step by stopping all the inputs to the brain i.e. watching porn currently its day 10 of watching it:-
    but the points which I mentioned below are hunting me very badly I.e. every time I used to think about something (or) whenever I watch a girl immediately they appear into my brain and this is the main problem. so please help how can I stop these images and negative thinking especially anal scenes flashing in my mind

    I want to quit this because I hate looking at women/girls as sexual objects
    I want to help, love and respect them(women/girl)
     
    Last edited: Sep 7, 2018
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  2. Sep 5, 2018 #2
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    Almost 2 weeks in? At this time your brain is trying to get what it wants and you're not giving it anymore. It will be very hard for a while but it will start to calm down.
     
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  3. Sep 5, 2018 #3
    4DCreator

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    I also have a fetish of anal when it comes to women, and also foot fetish in the same time so 2 fetishes. I had all of it fulfilled from girls in real life so it is difficult for me to forget about the experience especially on my nofap journey. Extremely difficult. Probably the only way to get rid of those fantasies is not to feed the brain with this sick input from PMO, and the brain will urge you less and less until it is manageable. I am still fighting myself as you can see I have only like 1-2 days of nofap so I can't really say anything but I know exactly how you feel. To be on nofap and have a fetish problem is double hard. And imagine I have 2 fetishes at once. So triple hard. But we can make it, we just need to stop feeding the brain with it and overcome urges and withdrawal syndromes
     
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  4. Sep 6, 2018 #4
    Getting_Free_From_Porn

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    thanks for the advice freddiefox and 4DCreator
    4dCreator I have got this anal fetishes because I used to watch anal porn more and whatever I watch sometimes I used to masturbate by seeing some girls in the college and then coming home and masturbate so can I forget these in the long run
     
    Getting_Free_From_Porn, Sep 6, 2018
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  5. Sep 6, 2018 #5
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    Stay focused on your goal. Engage people more in conversation as a person, maybe this will help in how you view them
    Keep going, this time of extreme drive will pass.
     
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