Very extreme severe Femdom real life- help

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Aiden5, Aug 6, 2017.

  1. g2stop

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    Abuse is wrong no matter if it done by men or women. Women who say they need to be dominant and abusive to redress the balance are mentally ill.
     
  2. subforever2016

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    i have the same situation as Aiden5 but i think its more extreme that's why i asked him what his day looks like and what all she did to her previous slave and its triggering he can post a warning i want to compare what he is going through and what i am going through i asked him the details coz i want to know what others with a similar situation are going through and find out the similarities if its triggering he will mention the trigger warning and anyone who does want to read is free to do so
     
  3. ukbritishbloke

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    Please do that in a private conversation. This community is about people who want to get on top of their use of porn and masturbation, and I don't think they'll be helped by detailed discussion of femdom situations.

    I hope you get whatever support you both need, and can help each other. But I don't think this is the place to get or give that support if it's not about porn or masturbation and risks triggering others.
     
  4. Roady

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    I'm really happy to read this @g2stop :)
    Glad to see that the man in white in your avatar won this round :)
     
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  5. JustinX

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    The video is pure gold.
     
  6. TigerJin

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    Just posting in here to see if @Aiden5 will ever get out of this situation.
     
  7. Sharavana

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    Hey Adien

    Just porn addiction is one thing..
    But ur life is just really fucked up.

    Please get out.
    I bet she does not see u as a human.
    She would take care about the shoe sole she bought more than ur face trust me.
    Woman are emotional people.
    When she knows ur turned on just by the presence / or being mean.. Beating u
    Why will she stop.. She knows u would die just so she can lead a owesome life.

    She looks at u just like the dirt beneath her shoes.

    Do u wanna be just that.. Go ahead be like that...
    Or man up quit tell her u deserve more respect.

    U have one life.. Dont live it a slave...
     
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  9. Alejandro88

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    run fast , run far . that has to be the most horrible bitch on hearth, sure yu can find another less horrible one.
     
  10. g2stop

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    Hi @Aiden5 what is the latest?
     
  11. zaba99

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    @Aiden5
    I am wondering what is the new ??

    But thank you !
    your life it's dream of all femdom lovers , I was wondering always how it will be like ...

    But this thread is proove to me that's it's a terrible choice ! and I didn't know that's addictive life style :(

    After reading this I will never do this ...

    You prooved me also that those womens don't condider their slave as a real men and they will never marry him ...

    Just wondering if this women is domme , how can she date normal guys and be normal ??
     
  12. graham55

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    aiden5 i am considering doing what you're doing, how are things?
     
  13. Aiden5

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    To anyone considering the lifestyle please do not do this. I am on my 2nd therapist since i last posted. The first woman decided to raise my weekly session fee after seeing that all my money was going to the woman i served... essentially taking advantage of me too. Of course i discontinued my sessions with her but I am she is one of the few sex therapists with a specialty in "alternative lifestyles and BDSM". One thing i realized from talking with her is my situation is not really all that uncommon within the realm of these types of relationships. In fact she has many patients, men in particular that are in far worse situations being abused tortured and taken advantage of. Some who are frequent visitors of the ER and hospitals because the woman torture them so badly. As for me I am in the same exact situation doing my best and looking for streghtn to move on that I can not seem to find. I do not feel comfortable to get into specifics on her about my day to day, torture & punishments, as I do not want to trigger anyone here and do not feel it would be appropriate anyway. The only thing i can say is it is true you can become a tortured prisoner both mentally and physically to anyone in any relationship, it does not have to be this type of relationship but this of course is worse because it is the basis for the relationship. That being said it is wise to not look for trouble because eventually you can find it. It is trouble to look for a mistress or woman to abuse you... it is that simple. When you find one who has real power of you and capable of reinforcing her power and position in your life than it will be much harder to pull yourself away. I am always given just enough false hope for something more and reward i am craving to keep me hanging on. The rest of it is truly brutal torture and addiction. As i have stated here before this really started with PMO and escalted to real life so please be careful about the choices you make and the people you surround yourself with. There is really no locks on the door.. this is all on me. But I have to be able to walk away from something i have become infatuated with and craving constantly like a drug.
     
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  14. PMO addict

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    WOW I had no idea this was even possible. OP I hope you can get out of this situation. I think ACA meetings would help you because in ACA people recover from being addicted to abuse. Thanks for sharing it here, because I never would have known. I can't believe she physically punishes you, too. So horrible... I am not judging you... Anyway getting on the comp and reaching out for help is a good first step.
     
  15. PMO addict

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    not only that but men are abused enough in ritual genital cutting
     
  16. g2stop

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    @Aiden5, why can’t you go on holiday to get away for a bit?
     
  17. Max Toulouse

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    You've gotta stand up for yourself mate. This is your life and if what you're currently doing is torture you need to leave. Everything she's told you is a lie. She's likely used fear and threats to manipulate and make you feel like you have no choice but to stay. You've gotta get out man and live your own life. Fuck this bitch. She should burn in hell.
     
  18. truthseeker17

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    You have taken her as goddess because of her "beauty" and "intelligence". Weak is your goddess. I bet I have seen more beautiful ladies and more intelligent then her and not given a damn about it. Weak are you for pursuing her. Please don't praise her to us here. I am sure she sweats and stinks. She farts and goes to the toilet to do her need. She isn't perfect. Not at all!

    Where is your freaking selfcontrol? Make me the ugliest dude in the world and I won't even care about it ... Nor would I care about getting a girl's attention the way you try to. It's called being a man! So what if I like her? So what if she is the most beautiful girl in the whole Universum.. She doesn't like me so she doesn't get me! Instead of her 10000 others ! Simple like that.

    I also don't understand that weird fetishes ... anyway letting your fetish grow that big is just asking for trouble.

    I don't pity you for you seem to be some what proud of your position.

    I am sorry for being harsh but atleast I am honest.
     
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  19. Max Toulouse

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    Dude, you are what's wrong with this forum. He didn't come here to get criticized, he came here for help. Fuck off.

    Just being honest.
     
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  20. truthseeker17

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    My criticizment isn't to break him nor to bring him down ... it's to get to him and wake him up to see. He is clearly blinded. You may not see it but I am trying to help in my own way. If I didn't care I wouldn't even respond to him. Btw what da hell is wrong with people who don't like criticism? For someone to change his behavoir one needs to know what he is doing wrong. Reading his comments I don't have the idea that he is certain about the evil of his position.

    I find it weird how you blame this forum .. If I am doing something wrong then clearly it's got nothing to do with this forum. This forum might not be perfect but it's still a safehaven for alot of us inclusief you(hence you are here). Show a little respect.
     

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