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Using people's underwear to masturbate with - thoughts?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Administrator Account, Jun 7, 2018.

  1. Saw this local news story today.

    Landlord caught masturbating with tenants' clothing.

    Why is this so common? Hear from many people who masturbate using clothing.
    • Has anyone had this inclination before?
    • Do you think that it's morally acceptable to do, or not? There are also online websites where women sell underwear consensually to do this.
    • Do you think this inclination was influenced or increased by porn, or came before porn?
    • Why is this so appealing to do for some people?
    • How many people do you think do this?
    • Do women ever do this to men's clothing?
    • Has your inclination decreased after quitting porn? After abstaining from certain sexual behaviors for a period of time?
    • Do you think that you can incorporate this inclination healthily into a sex life, or is it always unwanted behavior? Or is it not appealing if a partner "gives you" the underwear on their own accord, it has to be a sneaky-thing?
    Any thoughts on this?
     
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  2. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    It was featured on orange is the new black... The TV show.
    I overheard women (parents) at the kids busstop talking about it.
    They thought if their husbands did it, it would be gross.
    But if they were single and they had hot Latin lovers, it would be hot.
    I didn't know what to say to this.
    I guess men think the same about women tho.
    Their wives aren't hot enough, right?
    That's why they order underwear from some stranger.
    Or grab it from tenants... I guess.
     
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  3. Evidently, the landlord was accused of "criminal mischief". o_O This seems to be the part of the statute dealing with leaving semen on his tenant's used clothing. The link you gave wouldn't load properly @Alexander, so I read about the case here: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/en...turbating-clothes_us_5a2ed507e4b01598ac471016

    I feel this is an unnecessary charge. The clothing was soiled. Now it has a little extra soiling and simply needs washing, which was required anyway. The other charges: burglary and criminal trespass seem more appropriate in this situation.

    Why is this so common? IDK, although the first single of the internationally famous band Pink Floyd was about it. :/
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arnold_Layne#Lyrics

     
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  4. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    Fun Fact!
    Nice, @IGY
     
  5. Ahem... Yes, I have had the inclination and I have done this many times. It seems morally acceptable to do this to me. The circumstances were different for me, but, yeah, essentially the same thing. Mine came 25 years before I started porn. I was still a teenager. It was not increased by porn later in life. The appeal for me was to smell the sexual odours in the underwear. This seemed to improve my imagination about the person that wore it. I had read about pheromones and wondered if sniffing their soiled underwear would impart those pheromones to me to excite my own sexual desire.

    I have no idea how many people do this. At first, I thought I was the only one and felt lucky I had thought to do it, lol. As the years went by, I thought others might do it to, but no one mentioned it nor did I hear reports of it on the news. Yes, I suppose my inclination has decreased over the last nine months. But I could easily do it as I have such fond memories of doing so. I think it can be incorporated into a healthy sex life and isn't an unwanted behaviour. It would have much greater excitement to do this as a sneaky thing for sure. But even if it is "given", it is still pretty damn hot tbh.
    Thanks @Kenzi :)
     
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  6. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

  7. If you were to believe Japanese anime, it's a fairly common thing for young men to steal women's underwear. This kind of episode is always played for laughs too. But like most sexual stuff in anime, I believe that if you actually started emulating how horny men in anime act, including their tendencies to steal women's underwear, you would get in trouble with the law fairly quick.
     
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  8. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

    @matthewmammothrept, I looked up actual news about Japanese police dealing with underwear theft. I believe that anime reflects the actual situation, maybe exaggerating, but not making it up. They even do scientific research on that, and research costs money, so I think it's a big deal.
     
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  9. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    Art often mimics life.
     
  10. I inspired an art movement 40 years ago? :rolleyes:

    Cool! :cool:
     
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  11. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    Only you @IGY :)
     
  12. I thought I was the only one at the time, lol. ;)
     
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  13. Robbiebob

    Robbiebob Fapstronaut

    Hmmm .... I don't know what to say here. .. Well ... Let's face it, underwear are under clothing that give support & comfort for our personal private areas and perhaps the thought of that is giving it a sexual dimensions of sorts ... But I am hearing of it from time to time.. . Yes... I don't know!!! I just don't have a clear cut answer here... Rob
     
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  14. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    I done it. Was like a seasonal thing for me. Started as a curiosity because I heard other people do it. At first didn't felt no excitement. But then I did . It just helped my dirty imagination. I stopped doing it, I guess stopped being enough. Similar to what happened with types of porn, changing and always searching new staff to stimulate release Of higher dopamine dosage.
    Personal opinion is that maybe do it normally would be as a sexual joke with your spouse or some like that. But as a actual habit to implement in my sexual life would be feeding bad and twisted imaginations. As a addict. Will prefer to leave that type of staff alone. Similarly to cut more than just the bad part of the fruit off before eating it, cutting even some good (possible) in order to don't take risk of falling back on pmo addition.
     
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  15. Rehab101

    Rehab101 Fapstronaut

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    Only did it once or twice. I guess it felt different with it. Not my fetish.
     
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  16. Mollyjeans

    Mollyjeans New Fapstronaut

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    I have this unwanted behaviour too, only it’s for my wife’s jeans. Trouble for me is that she is often wearing the jeans and they act as a trigger for PMO. So when they make it to the wash I often leave a little extra to wash off. Sometime I soil them before they’re ready for washing in the hope she wears them again with the dried semen on them. I feel so ashamed.
     
  17. Jason_Tesla_19

    Jason_Tesla_19 Fapstronaut

    I don't see any major problem with it, as long as it's consentual. I think it's natural for a woman's scent to turn on a straight man, for example. It can definitely be a problem behavior, like masturbation in general.
     
  18. freewolf

    freewolf New Fapstronaut

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    I think is related to pheromones but YES, I do find it exciting to smell my couple's underwear or of another hot woman. I don't think is related to porn.
     
  19. I myself found it disguisting to smell it. But I was exited about wearing it when I was younger, about 15-16 years. I did it very often instead of watching porn. But I think these are two different types of fetish: smelling and wearing it.

    A few years later I stopped it. :)
     
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  20. WillyRonka

    WillyRonka Fapstronaut

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    I've experienced this before. I slept with a girl who took my virginity a year ago...as a daily porn user. She was disgusting, but I had a insane panty fetish. She offered me to keep her panties one time, and unfortunately I still have yet to part with them. Maybe now it's time to throw them away.
     

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