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Urges to sex chat

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by the20somethingvoyager, Jun 16, 2018.

  1. the20somethingvoyager

    the20somethingvoyager Fapstronaut

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    Porn is not always the problem. Sometimes people move towards something that is highly interactive and exciting which is sexchatting. Any tips on how to avoid this?
     
  2. mcade

    mcade Fapstronaut

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    I am struggling with this issue also and with porn. The cat tinging being interactive make things worse for me. I guess just know your are not the only one.
     
  3. This is porn!
     
  4. @theyoungwarrior, It’s all about keeping your brain and your hands occupied. Me, I was addicted to sexchat rooms and anonymous voice/phone sex and then spent thousands of dollars on camgirls, escorts, strippers, and toll free paid phone sex, and would literally waste entire days in chatrooms, waiting for someone to connect with, M and O, take a break and then be back on it. I wasted a lot of time that I cannot get back. Now I go to the gym to work on my body, and do artwork, write and read more in the past month than I did in the last five years.

    “Idle Hands are the devils playground...Free you mind and the rest will follow”

    @mcade, you’re not alone either. Along with everything I mentioned, Porn was the root of everything and caused a lot of detrimental problems for me. Everything about was for a greater high when porn wasn’t enough anymore. As soon as you quit porn masturbation and orgasm all the urges go away no matter how extreme.
     
  5. MasterRoshi

    MasterRoshi Fapstronaut

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    Quitting PMO is super easy. I mastered the quitting many many times over the last year. Staying stopped is hard :)

    I must do daily practices to change the way my brain functions in order to beat temptation and re-wire my brain.

    I still have lustful thoughts about people I see, but I have been able to avoid all forms of unhealthy sexual acting out for longer than I’ve ever done before. The only explanation for this is the daily maintenance work I do every single day.

    Hang in there! Lmk I’d you want to know what I do daily.
     
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  6. Same here. Lately I cannot say that I’m bored when I have done a great job and changing my routine and doing things to stay busy and motivated to carry on my streak. Temptation is a challenge when I didn’t realize how bad everything I was doing became
     

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