URGENT MESSAGE!!!!!!

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Denzel889, Apr 28, 2019.

  1. Castielle

    Castielle Fapstronaut

    Dude... she does NOT love you! I'm sorry, but one, you don't fall in love with someone because you kissed them twice. And two, you don't block someone you love on social media and tell then you have a boyfriend and don't want to be with them.

    She doesn't love you, she doesn't want to be with you, and either she has a boyfriend, and therefore is a cheater, or she doesn't have one but she told you she did, and therefore is a liar and doesn't want to be with you anyway. Move on.
     
  2. Castielle

    Castielle Fapstronaut

    I doubt that you actually want to hear any real advice, because you've made that pretty clear. But I'll give it to you straight.

    You are too dependent and emotionally needy. People do not fall in love after two kisses and a hug, and the way you are acting like you are so obsessively in love with her after just that much contact, is extremely unhealthy. That's probably the number one thing that turned her off. She probably just wanted to have a little fun, and now she has some guy thinking she's in love with him because she kissed him, which is ridiculous. People kiss people all the time, and they don't instantly fall in love and become obsessed with each other. Your obsession with this girl is extremely unhealthy, and in my personal opinion, you are nowhere near ready to be in a relationship if that's how you respond to a girl kissing you twice. You need to be alone for a while and find yourself more, because I don't know a single girl on this planet who wants to be with someone needy and desperate.

    Honestly, if I thought someone seemed cute and nice and we had been flirting a bit and we kissed twice and hugged once (according to you), and he started acting the way you are acting in this thread, I would be like "whoa, this dude is insane, never mind, I gotta get out of this." Because she is not in love with you, and you are not in love with her. You are infatuated with her. There's a difference. Love does not happen like that. And even if it was love, I still would be majorly turned off by someone being so emotionally needy. It's not an appealing trait in a partner.

    I'm sorry if that's harsh, but there isn't really any polite way to tell someone that. But it's the truth, and if you actually want to learn and grow, you might want to take it in and learn from it.
     
  3. Denzel889

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    Thank you.. Let's see where this goes I will continue to talk with her in person and see where this all goes
     
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  4. Infrasapiens

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    How unoriginal. I'm sueing you for copyright.
     
  5. Ginny Weasley

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    Moove on.
     
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  6. Denzel889

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    I already MOVED ON..
     
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  7. Denzel889

    Denzel889 Fapstronaut

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    I wanna see her bf and kick him right in his stupid face..
     
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  8. Nick:3

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    we often want people who lead us to sadness. It's weird but I used to try and be friends with a group that hardly talked to me, and tried hard to socially please and interact with them. After a while I just gave up, this had happened a few times. However when we let go of those that cause us pain, this allows for better and more positive people to flow in to our lives. If this girl is causing you pain, let her go, see what happens, allow things to be, and im sure in the future you will end with a faithful and wonderful girl by your side; you don't wanna start a relationship with 'the love of your life' with her cheating on her bf imo...although then again my house mates are a couple and the girl cheated on the guy (cos he was a dick apparantly) and they're happy, so do what feels right and makes you happy.
     
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  9. Infrasapiens

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    You learned nothing. Do whatever you want, we warned you.
     
  10. Denzel889

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    I learned a lot it's just I said what I felt
     
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  11. Infrasapiens

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    Muv onne.
     
  12. One Mic

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    *states she loves you*

    *only source of evidence for this is what you THINK you saw in her eyes*

    Proved my point by saying this when I said "But as if you're going to listen."

    I'm done. There's the classic saying that it's not what a person says that matters, it's their actions, but for you, you're placing what you think a person thinks over their actions. Which is something I never thought I'd see in someone.

    Do whatever you want.
     
  13. Infrasapiens

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    I just copied myself, I have to sue myself too.
     
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  14. Denzel889

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    Whatever man I don't care anymore.. It is what it is.. Just leave me alone so I can get over her
     
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  15. Denzel889

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    I LOVE HER TOO MUCH AND just leave me in peace to suffer
     
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  16. elevate

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    Her: I have a boyfriend.

    You: I have a math exam tomorrow.

    Her: Huh? What does that have to do with anything?

    You: Oh, I thought we were talking about things we're going to cheat on.

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    Her: I have a boyfriend.

    You: That's good. You'll have something to keep you from being bored when I'm not around.

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    Her: I have a boyfriend.

    You: I have 2 bottles of wine.

    Her: Okay...

    You: Yes. One for us to drink and the other to pour all over your body.

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    Reality =

    Her: I have a boyfriend.

    You: I don't care.

    Her: *gets a restraining order*
     
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  17. Infrasapiens

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    If you want to be left alone then why you kept posting the same thread in different sections everytime it goes bad for you? You seem to have psychological problems, ignoring reality and throwing tantrums like a child. Look for professional help, I am being serious.
     
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  18. EatCake

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    I'm almost out of popcorn. IS THIS CAPS LOCK LOVE AFFAIR STILL GOING STRONG OR WAT?
     
  19. Infrasapiens

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    It is more like a psychological thriller than a love affair.
     
  20. EatCake

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    MOVIE OR BOOK?
     

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