Has anyone else out there experienced their PA finding them unattractive. My husband dumped me for P, basically didn't have sex with me for 2 years straight and for 8 years prior it was a huge struggle. No PIED but seriously zero drive for me; I had to do all the pursuing and we would go months without sex unless I initiated. He never complimented me, looked at me with disgust, and towards the 2 sexless years started insulting my appearance. Writing it out makes me feel livid that I let myself live (rot?) in those conditions for so long. I just had no clue how bad it was because of the slow decent into abuse territory. He has been quite the connoisseur of 2 D women and has told me how unattractive I was to him but that now that he "isn't looking at airbrushed 20 year olds" I look "great!". Thanks husband! It might seem shallow but as a woman I appreciate my man liking how I look. Now I just feel disgusting with him. It has been 2 years since dday. I just am curious if any PAs found their wife gross but is now not and if they can elaborate for me. Am I selfish that I want to be with someone who finds me attractive (even if an airbrushed 20 year old is next to me)?