Told my family about my partners addiction

I completely understand where your coming from. I did this with a friend of his. I reached out and then I felt so guilty about it I asked them not to say anything. I still haven't told him I did that. But ultimately he has no right to mad bc you need help and support from somewhere!

 

I can't really speak to what you should do, because I'm the guy with the problem, and my wife is the innocent one dealing with all of it. What I would suggest is to find someone that you absolutely trust to never judge your partner, or to ever throw it in his face even if she sees the two of you arguing about anything, especially this whole deal. If you don't have anyone that you know for certain you can trust, I would suggest maybe looking at a counseling center. Do some research on it first, if you can. I know that its very hard to talk about this with him, especially if he's lying and doesn't want to discuss it. I'm sorry you're going through this and I hope it all works out. I know that for my wife and me, nothing ever really started to improve until I told her EVERYTHING and made every possible effort to stop the crap I'd been doing and start doing other productive things instead like taking walks or clean up around the house or whatever.

Also, here's something I thought you might like to read:
http://www.covenanteyes.com/2016/05...e-of-pornography-use-no-one-is-talking-about/