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Today I'm planning to sleep with Prostitute

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Neitherdruid, Dec 2, 2018.

Should I hire the transgender escort ?

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  1. Neitherdruid

    Neitherdruid Fapstronaut

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    Abstaining from porn and Fapping has been great . But now I want to have actual sex. But the thing is that I am sexual arousedo by transgender females. But the only access I have to them is via escorts. Should I hire the transgender escort ?
     
  2. GA93JDeereboy

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    No, No, No.

    escorts they just care about money.
    This site is about getting over sexual problems, but not limited to.
     
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  3. Tannhauser

    Tannhauser Fapstronaut

    no! This will only make things far worse.

    This is because you haven't overcome your porn warped mind yet. Wait until your normal sexuality has returned and then pursue a real relationship.

    It isn't worth the risk of disease.
    It isn't worth the self loathing you will fee.
    It isn't worth contributing to the sex trade and the fact that the person you would be with has likely been abused and worse as part of it.
    It isn't worth the potential legal consequences.
    It isn't worth it PERIOD.
     
  4. AlejandroGPR

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    My personal experience on hiring a hooker (non-transgender):

    The cost is not worth it. If you're looking for a chance on a trans female, I strongly suggest joining a dating app thats specifically desinged for that sort of dating. There are numbers that say that 80% of LGTB type relationships start on some sort of virtual platform, so there you go. Try Grindr, maybe Badoo, look up some options and you'll find what you're looking for.

    The point is, you'll definitely not get your money's worth if you hire an escort from a website or something of the sort. You'll always feel like got scammed, that you wastes your money or something negative. TRUST ME.

    If you're the "I have to live it to believe it" type, then I'd STRONGLY SUGGEST going to a strip club first and talk to the girls around so you can get a feel of what thats like. Then, if you know for sure that you fancy that sort of scene, ask the girls if they know someone who can offer you what you're interested in and maybe you'll get lucky and have a chat with the poor creature before you bestow upon her your mighty cane of lust and desire.
     
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  5. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

    You keep asking the same question:
    • I want to have sex again with a sex worker (here)
    • I want to hire a Ladyboy Prostitute (here)
    • Today I'm planning to sleep with Prostitute (here)
    Each time you get the same answers: no, it is a bad idea.

    Are you planning to keep asking over and over again until someone says "yes"? If so then you could wind up with thousands of threads!
     
  6. CTRL + DEL

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    I was about to mention the same thing
     

  7. Hi sir I'm new here. I see you want to have sex with an escort but sir think about it this way. This will not help you. If you're truly trying to kick whatever is going on you're never going to be clean untill you make love to that person you love
     

  8. I so agree with you, love over lust
     
  9. ultrafabber

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    No, and by the looks of it you don't want sex, you just want a sexual release, which means you're still addicted.

    Being attracted to trans is a sex problem on it's own and you should fix that.

    Sex with escorts is a sex/intimacy problem as well.

    So you're looking at 2 problems into one.
     
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  10. Neitherdruid

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    Thank you for your reply! I almost slept with the trans escort. I paid her and everything. We started slow, she started kissing me but something within me was pulling back. Then I told her I can't do this. She started give me a blowjob( thankfully I could feel a sensation) but then I stopped and told her I can't do this. But then I took off her panties then I performed foreplay on her ( no oral). But then I told again I can't do this . We stopped. I put on my clothes. She was angry with me but then I told how I felt. I told her this is not how I want to have sex. I told her I want to have sex with someone I love . I told she could keep the money even if we didn't have sex. I have never thought I could actually reject sex when I'm about to have it. I guess Nofap gave me self-control. I know what I want because of this situation, I want love, sex isn't everything. Thank you for supporting me. I'm going to push Nofap even harder.
     
  11. 4DCreator

    4DCreator Fapstronaut

    You are going to pay for sex to a prostitute...OMG ..why you doing nofap in a first place??? I am so surprised what some people have on their mind. I would rather masturbate 100x a day then hire some stupid sick prostitute that is like hiring "living bodyparts" where I can stick my dick. Where is an appreciation of a human and real love? Why you do nofap ?? I am sometimes lost on this page, honestly.

    Does prostitute mean to you something like a dead sausage in the shop? Really well done. NoFap helped you to get nowhere!
     
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  13. ultrafabber

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    Good for you friend, congratulations
     
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  14. Sorry to say, but there are many assumptions in this post that are questionable.

    There is no "Normal" sexuality that one can revert to! This seems to be a typical assumption behind Nofap. Many people are just naturally attracted to something that is not mainstream. People change their preferences throughout their lives. They discover new likes, etc.

    There is nothing wrong with being attracted to transsexual people.
    Therefore there does not need to be a "self loathing". Self loathing is mostly induced by religion, which is a condition far worse than porn addiction.

    Some sex workers are indeed trafficked, abused, and exploited. But not all of them. I know a few female sex workers who do their job because they see it as fast money. They can make a lot of money in a short amount of time and not work most days. They are even feminists. So it is not necessarily wrong to hire a sex worker. One must observe the circumstances. Besides that, many products we consume are produced under conditions of extreme human exploitation. Why limit the moral outrage to sex workers?

    So to the OP: If you feel attracted to transsexuals, I can understand that you may believe that the only way to find one is via sex workers. That would be very sad indeed. Maybe there are ways to have a relationship with one? Please don't feel ashamed about how you feel.
     
  15. ultrafabber

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    Yes, there is, that's a paraphilia. And transexualism, other than hermaphrodism which is an actual biological issue, is mental illness.

    And of course there is normal sexuality and that is something everyone should aim for.
     
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  16. Please define normal then.

    Whatever normal is -
    Maybe not everybody can be normal? Maybe not everybody wants to? Certainly no one needs to be.

    I certainly have no desire to be "normal".
     
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  17. ultrafabber

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    Yes, everybody can be and should be normal. We are wired to be normal, not caught up in all sorts of twisted stuff.
     
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    I'll type with a lot of spacing to make sure you understand what I'm telling you.



    Transsexual people are not a product of normal biology, arising from -but not limited to- hormonal, genetic, psychological or congenital defects in the normal psychology of a human being.



    Gender change in humans is NOT a natural phenomenon, unlike in many
    molluscs, some reptiles and few cnidarians.



    It is a surgical and chemical treatment which alters the natural human design.




    Therefore attraction to such individuals is not a product of natural taste.



    Before 1966 there were no transsexual individuals alive for the simple reason that such surgeries were not possible.




    It then stands to reason that such a taste is an attraction to man-induced modification.



    "Normal" isn't the wording that applies to such a case; neither is "natural".



    The word
    closest in meaning to such a preference is "fetish".



    Admittedly, many fetishes can be naturally occuring, but attraction to a by-product of man's intervention does not follow suit with such a label.



    I have no isses with either transgender OR transsexual individuals.



    Whatever their reasons for transitioning may be, I understand that not everyone is happy with what they were born with.



    However attraction to someone simply on the label that they are a "transsexual" is highly abnormal.



    If the attraction towards the "end-product" aka male OR female is what entices you, then you are completely justified in calling it "normal".



    However attraction on the basis of the knowledge of an individual's history in ticking different gender boxes is neither normal, nor natural, nor healthy, nor justifiably categorized into either of the labels mentioned above.



    In short, this is indeed something quite wrong in being attracted to transsexual people.
     
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  19. thats just ... your opinion, man.
     
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  20. CTRL + DEL

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    Let's try this another way.

    Which part of that isn't fact bro?
     

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