Tired of sex

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Bad_hombre, Aug 12, 2018 at 9:20 PM.

  1. Bad_hombre

    Bad_hombre Fapstronaut

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    I'm so tired of sex I feel like sex screwed my life. It made me lower myself for the affection of girls, It drove me to porn, It made me waste hours masturbating, It made me risk my health having sex with escorts, It makes me stare at a Tv because of some attractive woman, It made me waste lots of money and It makes me unfocused. Sometimes It's just frustrating to have all these feelings and not be able to do anything about it. I feel so great when I'm In want of no girl I feel free and happy It feels like life makes sense, but soon all my happiness and wellbeing go downhill because my sexual drive or the inferno as I like to call it takes my vital energy and my focus away from me.

    Does anyone feel like I do?
     
    Last edited: Aug 12, 2018 at 10:03 PM
  2. HopeForBrightFuture

    HopeForBrightFuture Fapstronaut

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    I’ve often laid in bed thinking of the countless hours and dollars I wasted due to being obsessed with sex. But it’s time to move on and use the time left wisely. Can’t change the past.
     
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  3. thelucky1

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    I've also thought about how life would be so much easier without my obnoxiously strong sex drive, especially in those moments when I hated myself and everything I did: masturbating to porn for hours, thinking about girls and so on especially when I'm procrastinating and have so much to do.

    BUT, then I'd start the NoFap challenge over again, and while dealing with the overwhelming desire to have sex, I'd have a HUGE burst in confidence and desire to socialize and study/work/explore life. Basically the opposite of the apathetic life I lived with PMO. I'm not sure sublimation is a thing, but it sure feels like that when I get a streak going. I think it's all about having the self-discipline to refocus that "vital energy" elsewhere.

    It's a double-edged sword.
     
  4. barbie

    barbie Fapstronaut

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    me too spent soooo many hours days and wastedso much good time on porn lude actions seduction and seeking to being the playgirl of older guys
     
  5. Bad_hombre

    Bad_hombre Fapstronaut

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    It would be a lot easier If we weren't bombarded with sexual images on a daily basis our culture is not doing it right, In my opinion, poor sexual education, many psychologists saying that It's fine to watch porn and experience sexually that way, peer pressure etc. By the time that you get to Nofap and become aware of the downside of sex you're almost done. The bottom has become commonplace for you.
     
  6. Bad_hombre

    Bad_hombre Fapstronaut

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    I hope that we all still have time to put ourselves together some people go to their graves never really knowing.
     
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  7. TheManDude

    TheManDude Fapstronaut

    I've been obsessing over sex lately, really thinking of seeing an escort but an earlier post I did made me realize that i'm just pushing things and that may not be the best thing to do right now.

    We need time to heal ourselfs.
     
  8. Freddiefox

    Freddiefox Fapstronaut

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    You have it right. Give you mind time to right itself, the world will still be there, but you will be able to see it through clear eyes and feeling strong.
     
  9. Freddiefox

    Freddiefox Fapstronaut

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    Soon you will be closer to your gf if you open up to her. Then you focus all that on her.
     
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  10. pmoisforlosers

    pmoisforlosers Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I opened up to her and she understands. I can’t help but lust after her to! It’s like trying to tame a beast on a leash.. I feel so sensitive and horny to even the smallest touch on my genitals. We had sex tonight and I lasted 3 minutes..It might sound funny but it’s ruining my life
     
  11. Freddiefox

    Freddiefox Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry about it things will calm down and get to normal.
    Try doing extra things for her so the short time in isn't the focus. You can do this brother.
     
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