Tired of massive failure in life

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by RayonGavdo, Dec 7, 2018 at 4:33 AM.

  1. RayonGavdo

    RayonGavdo Fapstronaut

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    Having found the your brain on porn website and finding out that porn addiction is at the center of most of my failure in life leaving me suicidal, it is time to make a stand to make a change in life. So joining the nofap website seems like the last resort. I hope this helps me cause I am tired.
     
  2. F1nch

    F1nch Fapstronaut

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    Hi, some support from this site of the line! Don't be too harsh on yourself. We are all human, but if you want something, I wish you all the courage you need to go for it! Step one and two are taken, good for you! Acknowledgement and the will to change! Good luck!
     
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  3. Leonmrd.dd

    Leonmrd.dd New Fapstronaut

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    Where can I see the stwps to NoFap?
     
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  4. RayonGavdo

    RayonGavdo Fapstronaut

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    I appreciate the encouragement. It is just that failure has hounded me for so many years and realizing that porn has taken away my ability to push on to reach any goals I set is just astonishing. I read about hypofrontality on your brain on porn website and how porn diminishes the frontal lobe which is supposed to be the CEO of the brain and I am shocked. So I tried in vain over the last year to quit but to no avail. So I decided to join nofap community and see whether it will make a difference.
    I wish you all the best also. I see that you also recently joined.
     
  5. RayonGavdo

    RayonGavdo Fapstronaut

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    I think he mentioned the steps. If I am not wrong step 1 is acknowledgement of the problem and step 2 is the will to change.
     
  6. F1nch

    F1nch Fapstronaut

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    Hi you're right. I am not a guru, but there's more steps in my thread today. I use them more, to get something to change. Varying from being less angry to paying positive attention to someone I care for, cleaning my mess, setting too big goals and fail, whatever.
     
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  7. RayonGavdo

    RayonGavdo Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, I definitely need to be less angry for sure and take personal responsibility instead of blaming and shaming.
     

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