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Thoughts on Rebooting with Girlfriend?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by captain_bongo, Jun 20, 2017.

  1. captain_bongo

    captain_bongo Fapstronaut

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    My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 months and we have sex regularly when we're together, but over the summer we only see each other every few weeks. Is rebooting in a healthy way possible while in a sexual relationship? I've been working on doing no P, no M while my girlfriend is away, but sometimes I M without P. I started my counter today because I want to cut out P and M entirely but I wonder if it's okay to have sex with my girlfriend when I do see her? Will this set me back?
     
  2. GG2002

    GG2002 Fapstronaut

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    Sex with your gf is likely fine so long as you only O from her and do not use your hand at all. If you can't finish then you give up and try again later. If having sex with her makes you feel like relapsing you should not do it. And as hard as it is being in a distance relationship you gotta cut out all porn and masturbation.
     
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  3. captain_bongo

    captain_bongo Fapstronaut

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    You're right, I really care about her and I know I connect better when I'm on a streak - I have to stop. Day 2 no PMO, and I get to see my girlfriend in a few days! Thanks for your reply.
     

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