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Thoughts of visiting escorts

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by lonercub, Jan 3, 2018.

  1. I have only very rarely encountered this issue. The majority of the escorts i met were open minded, and willing to do almost anything. I think it depends on the company that you use and the girls you choose to meet. Although i guess appearance can come into play sometimes. As the age old saying goes there is someone for everyone, everybody has a type and fetish.
     
  2. Vulkan

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    There may be different reasons, why she does not want to make out.
    For example one girl told me, because of her children (doesn´t want a disease in her mouth to be transmitted to them). Other women may find it too intimate and do it only in a relationship.
    Probably most women just don´t find random men attractive at all. Had this problem too and was very frustrated, still never kissed in my life - thought I am probably just ugly.

    Now I trust my feeling, which women could be compatible with me and read what I can find online about her, then watch if she shows a positive reaction when I enter the room (still you can go home, when you have a bad feeling).
    Those selected women tell me that I am cute and sometimes make out with me like crazy, not long ago a girl licked my face and kissed me so intense i came to orgasm. She even forgot my wallet, when I gave her money while going home, she said - oh yeah the money :) ...love my job^^.

    So a good intuition may help, if you are not very beautiful.
     
    Last edited: Jan 12, 2018
  3. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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    Dammit, I thought hookers would find me handsome like in that movie Pretty Woman with Julia Roberts and Richard Gere.
     
  4. Vulkan

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    I don´t know that movie. But yeah, it may happen, that she may find you handsome and/or likes you. They are human.

    Depending on the individual, chances may be slim, but if you are not ugly, scruffy, no manners,..
    In a depressed state of mind, one may not realize, that it is at least possible to experience passion.

    Want to give another example:
    Just two weeks ago, a hot women came upon me like a firestorm! After the battle, I had the cutest cuddling with the tiger - when it felt very intimate, she told me I am a hot man, giving me many sweet kisses - we enjoyed intense eye contact.
     
    Last edited: Jan 13, 2018
  5. Kikobraz

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    You looking for a meaningful relationship from a five dollars prostitute? yea I would feel disappointed too I guess... nothing wrong with going with escort. It’s certainly better that fapping your dick into oblivion. At least you are going to PIED from it, not will you suffer from the grip of death. However looking for a meaningful relationship from an escort is just stupid and it has nothing to do with PA. It’s just stupid
     
  6. Onehope

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    No, I wasnt looking for something meaningful with an escort, I was just horny, looking for my next high.

    It sucked because it felt the same as masturbating, it was about ejaculating, nothing more.

    Which in turn makes you feel empty, like you achieved nothing. So it made me start to want something more, better and meaningful, which is why I dont do it anymore.
     
  7. Tyler478

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    I saw an escort recently... It was a tad bit fun to finally be able to have sex but I could not reach ejaculation with the condom. Honestly, I want to have hot passionate sex with a regular girl that I have a connection with. With an escort, you just fuck and go. I want intimate kissing, rubbing, etc. Unless the escort provides GFE (Girlfriend Experience), you just won't get that. Escorts are great if you just don't wanna masturbate and need a nice fuck. I would recommend bringing bareskin condoms for added sensation.
     

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