Hey Fapstronauts, I am slowly approaching my first month mark, which will be the longest I have ever abstained. Besides a few edging incidents, I have kept myself relatively on track. I have been talking to this girl for about a month now, (haven't seen each other in a few weeks due to travel and such) and she is coming back in a few days. Though I am planning on holding off sex for a bit and take things slow as per her request, this will be my 2nd sexual encounter ever, (the first being 4 years ago). What I can't get out of my head though, and seems to be plaguing me as of late is the possibility of not being able to perform. Or rise to the occasion. I think about this often and I think this was due to my porn use.. when I finally quit watching porn, I was fapping without getting hard anymore, or barely maintaining a 30-40% erection. Thoughts, opinions? Thanks!