thoughts about dating 'hot' girls

And don't relapse @Tesslynne. You are AMAZING!
I've seen some of the things you have said on other pages.
You are a great person, IMO.
You deserve Respect!

 

Here's the thing @Billy the GOAT girls will hear you in real life too. (even when you think nobody is listening)
If you want women to notice you, just be nice.
My guy is a goofy looking MF. I'm with him even though he's struggling through all his PA stuff because he's genuinely a nice guy.
I know alot of goofy looking guys.
The good looking guys? they never keep the girls if they aren't nice.
It doesn't matter where you are or go.
It's the character that matters.
Looks fade.
Just my two cents.

 

It's not so much that the looks fade - though yes they can. It's more IMHO sooner or later she gets REALLY SICK of his douche bag behaviour and she walks. No matter HOW hot he is.

Not everyone but those of us with sense do.

 

Yup.
The best thing a man can wear is INTEGRITY.
The definition of which is "do what you say and to say what you do"
Or in short - be a man of your word.
Whether you are a good man, or a poor man, then it's up to you.
But, you will catch more flies with honey, then with vinegar... Verbally speaking, if you will.

 

I just saw this post and here's my opinion. Be yourself. But work on being a better version of yourself. More fun, dress nicer when you go out, start working out. Those are all qualities women find attractive. A few people have suggested online dating but I'm not sure that is the best option. I know because I resorted to it for several years and even though I had some success, overall it has kind of hurt my confidence and perception of what girls think. Hot girls are rare on dating sites and there are many men on there sending all types of messages to them that they get overwhelmed. I know because I have talked to some which were above average and they said they were getting slammed with messages and often wouldn't even get to read them all unless a guy's profile really stood out. So, the lack of getting replies from quality women and only having heavier or less desirable women messaging me hurt my confidence with the kind of women I desire. I mean, depending on where you live, perhaps there's a better hot girl-guy ratio but still it's probably not in your favor. Build confidence in the real world. Put your struggles behind you, everyone has their issues. Be confident that you know your weaknesses and the fact that you're strong enough to better yourself. Good luck.

 

Salute to your thinking

 

Here's my thoughts on this. Would I want to date an attractive woman and such? Yes. But here's my thing. Looks are a plus, but personality counts. If a girl is attractive, but her personality is not good then I wouldn't see myself dating her. I wouldn't want to derail a relationship with an attractive girl if I'm not pleased with her personality.

 

You have to believe in yourself, I am more than confident that you can do it. Just go and try if you want to talk to that "hot" girl you see.

About online dating: I decided to ban online dating for good. IRL is the only option for me. Banning online dating also pushes you in a certain way to interact more.

There is a massive downside of online dating. Going up and speaking to a girl already shows her intention and personality. You will never be able to get these two attributes from online dating. Believe me, the good lasses are out there, not on online sites. Saying so, I think you can be successful in online dating as well. But, I think the time you invest into it is not worth the outcome. It is simple to type, but harder to go up and talk.

What ever you do, I wish you great success. Victory shall be yours, if you deeply believe in it!

 

Having a great sex life with your SO is great, but if all you are looking for is her body and if she keeps fit. How is that different than buying a blow up doll? Quitting PMO should make us realize that women are not just mere images behind a screen. They shit, eat, have aspirations, success, failures, etc. If you want to be with someone that fits XYZ criteria, they also need you to fit theirs.

You should look for someone with whom you have compatibility. If you have a decent job, look/feel good about yourself, have great things going on in your life. You will have absolutely have no problems attracting the type of people that have similar mindset or lifestyle.

Cheers.

 

Girls shit? Wow, thanks for ruining my childhood....

 

Yeah really, girls shit? lol

 

Of course!
It's farting.... Girls don't fart.
That's what you must be thinking of.
Lololololol

 

I'm so sorry, legend says they don't sweat nor fart.

 

Porn f*cks over your motivations.
It gives you symmetrical tits and thick asses with bleached anuses, fake lashes and heavy makeup.
It is also not real.
All women have rolls. Real breasts have one that points off in a different direction or is slightly smaller.
So it comes down to what you want. Do you want the perfect breasts, on a screen, on a person you'll never meet? Or do you want the slightly imperfect ones, attached to a beating heart that loves you and that you love?

There is hope for dating after uni - you can check out dating sites, but know that Tinder is kryptonite to men's self-worth and that constantly clicking through profiles for the perfect girl can be as addicting as and/or triggering for porn. I advise small, limited doses of something like PoF or OkC. Better to get involved in something - a group or a meetup or a church or a sport or whatever. Get involved in something that interests you. If you meet someone, great! If not, you've done something that interests you! Take some time to think about what you are looking for, too. And not just physical preferences, but personality.
Good luck, brother!