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This time, it's personal

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Brokenstrings, Apr 24, 2019.

  1. Brokenstrings

    Brokenstrings Fapstronaut

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    I am in a pretty serious long distance relationship with a girl I met while at college. She's two years younger than me and has about one year of school left. I've been working since graduation about 7 hrs away.
    Long distance is difficult, and really tough on her as she's constantly surrounded by her friends getting to be with their S.O's.
    I'm sure the most difficult part for her though is hearing about and knowing aboutthe times I mess up. I know it's hard not to compare yourself to what your S.O. is seeing when they are exposed to adult content.
    I try to tell her every time I mess up because it strengthens our relationship, but sometimes it's difficult because I know it will negatively affect her.
    We agreed to wait until I have been free of this issue for two months before considering engagement. I was hoping to pop the question next month, but a recent PMO made me realize I will no longer be able to. Which really really sucks.
    So I'm giving it all I've got from here on out. I really love this girl and I want to stop acting like I don't.
    On a happy note, I spent the past ~8 years watching porn almost daily, but since I've been in a relationship with her, It usually maxes at 7 times a month, usually two or three. It's getting better, but it's time to stop completely.
     
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  2. Get one or more APs on this site and start checking in every day. Wishing you the best. Before marriage is definitely the time to quit PMO for good.
     

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