This is why men stay single in 2019

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by goodnice 2.0, Mar 9, 2019.

  1. goodnice 2.0

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    copy and pasted this comment and perhaps some of you can resonate

    “The old societal model was:

    A young woman would trade her youth and fertility exclusively to only one man, and he in turn would be the workhorse and take care of her when she gets past her prime. This was a great incentive for men to work, become men, and get married. You got a prize, a young beautiful loyal wife. In theory, as we know life isn't perfect. She does him a favor early on by being a virgin/exclusive and later he does her a favor by staying and supporting her instead of leaving her for a younger woman. They both get a prize.

    The new societal model is: Women whore around and waste their youth and fertility on Chad/Tyrone, get walled out, get STDs, lose their ability to pair bond, rapidly accelerate their aging process with excessive alcohol and fast food, and have no loyalty to any man. What sensible man would pay top dollar for something 30 other men got for free? The incentive for men is gone. You don't get a prize anymore. You get a parasite with an entitlement mentality that’s looking to take your resources and then some

    She has kids from Chad/Tyrone or both, personal credit card debt, no assets, school debt for a worthless degree in liberal arts, no cooking skills and no desire to learn any, no fiscal responsibility, an overly banged vagina, and a pet you’ll be expected to take care of as well.

    The so-called good men she wants and can’t find are out there. They just don’t want her at the table because she has nothing to bring except financial and emotional pain. In addition, she also has great expectations you’ll do everything for her, make her feel better, and provide an unrealistic unsustainable life style she feels she deserves

    All this while she cheats behind your back with the “bad boys” she really wants while you’re at work paying all the bills for this little parasite. Yea, that sounds like a good deal, is this the line I stand in to loose half my sh!t? Good luck with that. Men are waking up and realizing this system is defective and toxic.”

    Edit: It’s important to be aware yet not be totally toxic. Try to find the good men and women because they are still out there, albeit may be a bit difficult to find;)
     
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  2. MonkeyDo

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    Yes, a lot of people in our society are diseased. We are out of balance with our true nature. We behave in ways that aren't truly good for us. It's a sad thing.
     
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  3. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Take the red pill OP. Read Rollo Tomassi's "The Rational Male".
     
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  5. level81rat

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    There's plenty of innocent women out there. It's just that they tend to be less attractive than the promiscuous ones, but not always
     
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    We live under the Feminine Primary social order.
     
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  8. Lilla_My

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    Oh, wow. As Oscar Wilde once wrote; "someone is writing rather nasty stuff under your name, maybe you should have it checked out?"

    I don't really know who these women are. Let me tell you who I am, and who the majority of my female friends are, not to mention the females on this forum.

    I got married in my mid twenties, like many other women. Most women nowadays are not virgin when they marry, neither do they sleep around. I met my husband and it was like all other men faded into oblivion, like he was the only man on earth. Fast forward five years, and he is still my everything. He is still the only man on earth. I don't look at anyone else, I don't care about anyone else. I don't show my body to anyone. I do not watch porn, as I believe viewing other men while you are married is wrong. I'm not a freak of nature, just a normal girl.

    If you go in to this forum you will see a lot of women like me, who are totally devoted to their men, while these men spend hours and hours sexually obsessing over the women you just describe. Women who, at some point in their lives, got into the wrong path and is now part of an industry so many men are very eager to support (while wrecking their marriage over). I'm pretty fed up with men chasing "loose" women and then complain endlessly over their lack of morals. It's just not attractive. There is a wonderful saying that goes;
    "If you lay with dogs, you wake up with flees".

    So if you are so terrified, disgusted and bothered by this minority of females, just ignore them and pay attention to all the wonderful, devoted, educated women out there who is willing to do everything for their man. This girl won't be on your favorite triple x site, nor will she be on Tinder or Instagram. She will be cooking, cleaning, working to support herself and her family, taking care of children and cultivate her hobbies, while constantly thinking of ways to make the only man in her life happy and healthy.

    It's kind of pitiful that guys think they will be young forever and "sacrifice themselves" to an aging wife. Men age often times worse than women. Their fertility decline, their DNA fragments, they get invisible to young women, their belly grows big, their back hairy, their junk shrinks or function poorly. Even their life span is shorter! Still a good woman will be there for them (if he deserves her that is).

    Most women are not whores nor virgins, they do not have STDs or have a "banged up vagina" (what is that? Sorry, I do not watch materials that depict the genital configuration you so vividly describe), they are generally not militant feminists either. So stop bashing on females. Celebrate your masculinity by being that man she will always cherish; a strong, brave, loyal, loving man, free from PMO, misogyny and other nonsense.
     
  9. goodnice 2.0

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    I Respect you. I found this in a youtube comment. I did not write it. I don’t believe all women are like those. However, from my experience, most women do fit the new societal model and yes many men are caught in the trap of chasing ad lusting after these types of women. But i won’t play any part of these games nor will i ever be a slave to PMO. I’m staying single and focusing on myself until i find someone like you
     
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  10. goodnice 2.0

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    This is really tru, this is what i’m waiting for and it’s already begun
     
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  11. elevate

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    Where are you meeting women like this?

    Let me guess. Bars / clubs / tinder. Places that attract that type of behavior.

    Don't be mad about them. Be mad at yourself for not being able to screen out people like that and allowing them into your life.

    If you're unable to see them for who they really are early on, then you're with them for the wrong / superficial reasons, and it's your own fault.
     
  12. Issah

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    Yes of cause. Because men are gods themselfs and the epitome of goodness and perfection. *eye rolling*

    What that guy is saying is just a projection of what he thinks about himself or the type of woman he has been attracting because that's the only kind he sees himself worthy of getting.

    That dude needs to heal past wounds and make better decisions in the future and stop making generalizations because of his own bad relationship decisions, cos the men that abuse and misuse women are the ones with that exact mindset.

    Coming from such a place could never yield goodness or cause a decent person to be interested in you.

    If that's how you also feel, I suggest you heal whatever makes you think such, get to know yourself and elevate your mindset, because otherwise you'll go through life believing woman are money sucking whores and either that's all you'll ever attract - so that you can "prove yourself right" - or you'll get a person with a good heart and just mistreat and abuse her, scar her into something shes not all because you never saw value in her to begin with.

    That's a dangerous territory man that'll never make you fit for any decent healthy relationship, I'm sorry. With such a mindset you'll be stuck exactly where you are 20 years from now. Bad mouthing woman on the internet instead of growing and working on your own self.
     
  13. Lilla_My

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    Ah, social media - the breeding ground for incels. I'm happy to hear you are committing yourself to more a more healthy attitude. From what I've seen it's pretty much like this;

    Men relentlessly hunt the russian call girl looking woman on the internet, that shows nothing but her body parts and her obsession for designer bags that she didn't pay for herself. The same men are then immensely disappointed that she is not a virgin, that she has no interest in working and that her hobbies generally consists of wasting older men's money to buy the outfits she needs to bed younger, hotter men.

    Women go for the bad boy with the huge muscles, assertive attitude and tattoos everywhere. You know, the guy who takes selfies in the gym and drive on the side walk with his large tinted window BMW. She then gets endlessly disappointed that he is a selfish, narcissistic, psychopathic criminal that has no future ambitions (even when he is out of prison).

    See my point here? In the end, nobody cares about the criminal or the instagram star, but they sure as hell are gonna laugh about the sad people that follow them around and obsess over them. If you look for vegetarians, don't go to a steak house. And so on.
     
  14. elevate

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    It's funny how people live their whole lives becoming someone that they think other people will like them for. Just to end up with someone that they don't even like for the sake of proving to themselves that they're desirable. Then they get angry at an entire gender because meeting a few bad ones apparently means they know the absolute truth.

    Yes. There's a lot of idiots out there. There always has been. It's still your own fault for not having the boundaries and standards to keep away such toxic people from your life.

    The smart ones... the good ones... and yes they're also very attractive...... you won't find them among wherever the fuck you found the toxic ones. Because they're smart enough not to associate themselves with garbage. They're smart enough not to associate themselves with the people dumb enough to chase the garbage either.

    So it's not men / women / other people that's the problem. The problem is you're an idiot if you can't find the good ones and keep away the bad ones.

    You get what you tolerate in this life. A lot of people tolerate toxic bullshit for superficial reasons. "Yup, she's a gold digging moron that will most likely cheat on me and divorce me, but she's hot and proves to other men that I'm a badass because my self esteem is too fragile without that external validation".
     
  15. Lilla_My

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    Truth. Generally, these hunters also - secretly or openly - consider themselves "too superior" for actual, decent potential partners. Because they "deserve" a 22 year old (even if they are 55), they "deserve" a rich guy that will pay everything for them (but they don't have any ambitions themselves), they refer to their person as an "alpha male" or "queen". We certainly live in a time when modesty and restraint are seen as some kind of incurable disease by many people.
     
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  16. Issah

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    So true!
    But yohhh this comment doesn't sit well with me at all..
    And the same person who says that still has the audacity to say women are the
    ones.. wow..

    Sorry but if you can look at another human, someones child man, and think "throw away sexual object" what does that say about your own soul and morals?

    That's the kind of thinking that's got so many women broken because of having to deal with abuse and sexual harassment/rape.

    We are all broken, that's why focusing on fixing your own issues and wounds is way more productive than bringing others down because of the issues you perceive in them.
     
  17. Sharksvv

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    Since when I did this website become a MGTOW/Borderline Incel website?

    None of what you mentioned resonates with me because you are only describing a certain type of woman, just how there are player type guys who have sex and never call every girl they “pump and dump” there are also women like this, but on the whole there are still millions of girls who are just looking for a nice committed relationship with one guy. Girls who have good morals.

    You’re going to find people like this of both genders, there are plenty of men who are like this with regards to one night stands, yet I don’t see anyone faulting them for being sexually liberated, so why can’t girls enjoy the same if they want?

    It’s about finding girls who aren’t like that and they do exist, I know this because that’s the relationship I have with my girlfriend. A relationship that is actually quite balanced, she even offers to pick up the bill when we eat out at restaurants on occasion, when we’ve gone on trips together she has offered to pay for her half and has. When it’s my birthday she takes me out to eat and pays for it and gives me a gift just as I do for her on her birthday.

    I’m not saying you’re wrong, I’m just saying that you’re only describing a certain type of woman and that there are many types of women.
     
  18. BravelyKegger

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    You are referring to trash women, a normal girl is nothing like this, a lot of guys chase these hot women who are not worth a damn, i used to be like that, but now i focus on personality and looks, i would take a kind decent looking girl over a beautiful awful woman anyday.
     
  19. goodnice 2.0

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    I don’t agree at all with the last part of the original quote i posted. i don’t think women are throw away sexual objects. I just think the societal model is really backwards and just weird. I have never been to a bar or club and don’t use dating apps at all because like social media they promote the same kind of games. The kind of women i meet are the women from my school, in my classes. Not all are like that i understand

    And i am frustrated that in the past i wasn’t able to screen them out and let them take advantage of me, and that’s why i won’t allow people like that into my life anymore
     
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  20. goodnice 2.0

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    yes me too exactly. i want the kind decent women, but so many because of influence of social media and this hookup culture have become the opposite
     
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