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Think I'm nearly cured, ask me anything.

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by nofepfepforlife, Sep 7, 2017.

  1. Naley scott

    Naley scott Fapstronaut

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    This is great news,i would like to get there sometime,my questions is did you ever experience alot of discomfort and soreness while you deep into the addiction?
     
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  2. IWillWin03

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  3. Lance Egone

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    Just really getting started here. Thanks for the success story and the insights.
     
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  4. SanityOverVanity

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    any response or more insight on this? @nofepfepforlife

    also, anything come of this that you're willing to share? Were you ever affected by PIED or any other dysfunctions at any point and if so, how are they now?
     
  5. nofepfepforlife

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    Sorry I haven't been able to reply guys, I've just been on a month long trip overseas. I'll try address the two big main points for now.
    In my case my pelvic floor was too tight and therefore weak (in its own way, because think about it...if your muscles are tight they are overworked all the time thus become weak). I basically focused on reverse kegals and deep breathing exercises (breathe into your balls and let your armour down!) that stretch out the floor. Since doing those I can easily maintain an erection when I stand up...although I still need a fair bit of direct stimulation to get hard when I'm already standing but considering where I was before, this is a HUGE victory for me. I suggest google searching basic pelvic floor stretching exercises. If your floor is weak in the sense your urine stream is pathetic (sorry i couldn't think of a better word), then I'd suggest doing regular kegals and then after about 3-4 weeks start to add reverse kegals into your routine and then get the ratio to about 50/50.

    And yeah, being overweight, sitting on your ass all day and fapping in a seat is very bad for your pelvic floor. Theres other ways I know of to help with standing erections. Feel free to PM me if you want links and more detail. I'd make this post longer but Im jet lagged like fck lol.

    Not sure what to say about my meeting with this girl. I can only really say it's changed my life and pulled me away from my porn addiction and bad life style choices. I've done a complete transformation. Despite several relapses I've proven that PIED can indeed be cured. I thought through out most of the process that there was no way I'd ever recover but I had nothing left to lose and everything to gain so I persevered. Months later I'm well on the way back to being normal again and even at a few points I felt like I was 19 years old again ;)

    Guys, if you dont have an organic issue (venous leak, hormone issues etc) then you CAN be cured and have a better life. Also pelvic floor issues are definitely common amongst us, it happens because of our masturbation style/habits. Its difficult but this stuff can be beaten, just dont give up. I'm glad I didn't.
     
  6. Robbiebob

    Robbiebob Fapstronaut

    Hi... Love your testimonial & determination... Yes go's to show it can be done... Good on you, and all the best in your walk to to banish this porn shit(that leads us to no were!!) ... I have faith in you... Keep it up!!!
     
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  7. 中国胖青年

    中国胖青年 New Fapstronaut

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    This is fantastic! I think I got a lot of power from your words... It's amazing,

    I think I can start a new life

    thank you
     
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  8. BlueJoe

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    any psychical difference? hair/skin?
     
  9. BestICanBe

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  10. nofepfepforlife

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    my skin is softer and flaccid is larger
     
  11. Any tips on getting the reverse kegel down? I can't really tell the difference when I do my regular kegels to be honest. One feels like I'm clenching my anus and the other feels like I'm kinda pushing at the base of my scrotum.
     
  12. Amazing thread @nofepfepforlife !! I came here just in time man!! Thanks for sharing bro!! Really inspiring !! Will help us in keep going!!
     
  13. theoptimist

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    Thanks a lot for sharing
     
  14. bueno, aqui vamos.... tengo problemas con la forma como veo el sexo y las mujeres, ya que por mucho tiempo he consumido pornografia, asi que quiero dejar todo eso atras, espero que este sitio me ayude , gracias
     
  15. _amar_

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    Congratulation mate!! i am on day 30. First time doing nofap in my life. started PMO at the age of 11 and i am 22 now. Can you tell me what can i expect after 30 days mark. Thank you and best of luck for your future.
     
  16. do you get 100% boners when you wake up in the morning?
     
  17. Asgardian36

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    That is so awesome brother! It felt good to read your progress! Keep it gng!
     
  18. nofepfepforlife

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    i dont wake like that but i get 100 percent boners when im awake and laying next to my gf lol.

    erections arent an issue for me anymore, my problem now is i can only enjoy sex and reach climax if i fantasize and even then that only works maybe half the time :( so now its serious delayed ejaculation and lack of pleasure....
     
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  19. Mr.Hopefull

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    Congratulations for your satisfaction and happy life bro.
    I read all your thread and compared my situation with yours, and thought your success story can be a big motivaion for me. Tho I dont weigh that much, just 70. And i am 6ft and skinny (below normal i think so).

    I start nofap about the end of october. And today i am on my 25th day going strong targetting 90days as yet.

    Guide me on my problem, as i am progressing so good mentally so far, no urges for Either of PM or O. But my physical state of my penis makes me worried. As i feel it had got smaller. And i dont get any erections at all, not even the morning wood. Its lifeless and i am doubtfull that if it will get erected or not, but i m not taking chances of a try as no urges at all.
    Am i progressing positively or is it a moment to worry?
     
  20. TheFutureMe

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    Yes this penis shrivelling and shrinking is fairly common, and I think you're right not to take a chance at "trying it", because it could cause a physical urge that *might* get past the mental control that you managed to exert until then. (Good job on those 25 days btw!). Also, you will have the nightly and morning wood slowly come back, don't worry about it. I know it's "one more thing" that raises your anxiety. Maybe you can try and see it as yet another way to get to play with your penis that your mind is trying to force on you? (It might not be the case, but maybe that thought can help you gain confident control over it, and just let it run its course without bothering you too much.)

    I suppose you're also feeling a bit greyed out, with the sensation that nothing around you is either exciting or boring?
     
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