there is a way to slow down the urge for fap but still enjoying +18 things?

Stop being a weeb. Not trying to be a dick but every person I know that enjoys anime is miserable. Cant be a coincidence.

 

Bro, nothing 18+ is possible to take in moderation. NOTHING! You can watch and enjoy anime (some like Dragon Ball Z and One Punch Man are the shit) but hentai? ABSOLUTELY NOT!

Anything that's sexual and graphic should be deleted and thrown into the trash. At some point, you'll find adult/sexual content to be disgusting, just like I do.

I wouldn't try to take it in moderation if I were you. You can't watch those without feeling like doom and gloom afterwards. You just can't. Plus, you wouldn't want to get caught anyways, right?

I know I'm sounding like a dick but it's true, you just can't take it in moderation. Ever. Pls, just throw it out of your life for good. Your quality of life will dramatically increase (when you get past the flatline that is).

Just do it. Pls. There's no weeb in the planet that enjoys their own life. End of story.

-Captain Rex

 

When you say this. Do you find nude scenes in game of thrones or other movies disgusting or are you just talking about pornographic content?

 

I say from personal experience... if you dont think that's the same thing as porn, you are kidding yourself.

I think these kind of psubs are often even harder to get rid of than pron itself, sometimes. For me its fanfiction. But I always count reading erotic fanfiction as a relapse for porn use. Because that's exactly what it is, and if you dont think it is, I think you're lying to yourself, honestly. There are plenty of other games out there for you to enjoy. Just like there are plenty of other stories out there for me to enjoy.

 

You can watch anime and be a happy guy sure. But you play hentai games and you wonder what the problem is??

 

Just trying to help and everyone I know that's deep into that jap culture of anime manga card games hentai etc etc. They are all a wreck.

 

A few tips:

Stop beating yourself up. Do the opposite and look after yourself. That'll reduce urges as well.

Use the "ignore" function on insulting people.

Allow better, non-triggering things into your life.

 

Meditaye regularly, aim for 40-50 monutes a day so the focused mental state stays with you for the whole day and accumulates every day, and work out maybe?

Replace that story habit with learning a verbal language or a computer language. Both can land you a job in the future if you learn well : ) seriously with so many free tutorials on the net(youtube, torrent..) you can get education better than in universities for free. I know for sure many university IT students basically are told in lessons what to learn and rely on youtube tutorials and such to learn in their own time.

 

Although I'm a fan of anime, I would have to agree

 

Yeap, those otakus are broken!. Millions of hardcore fans, otakus, alone contribute lots of cash, so no, no one will stop their trend.

Ive only watched most popular anime like dragon ball z, naruto. The times in my life when I watched them was me at my lowest. Notice those cheap hentai tries in almost eeeevery anime of any kind. The community calls it "fan service". My only words for it are stupid..

 

Write a journal, whether it's here or somewhere else. Work out what triggers you. Perhaps certain emotions do, or certain people. Find out what helps as well. Don't get too fixated on NoFap alone, think about other aspects of your life, your beliefs and so on.

Try some self-help techniques or ideas but don't be too slavish about studying them, if you know what I mean. Try something and if it helps keep doing it. Here's a recent find of mine, you don't need to be religious or anything to do it, it's like NLP:
https://joystreamhealth.wordpress.com/2011/12/02/healing-code-you-can-do-yourself/


Finally here's a slightly silly but perhaps useful thing I wrote in my journal a few weeks ago:

What inspires you? What can you identify with? To take my name as an example, let's say you are inspired by ninjas. Say to yourself often, "I'm a ninja."

Then when you get an urge, ask yourself, "Would a ninja do that?"

And the answer is, "Of course not!"

 

Well I mean, I find porn more disgusting than it is arousing nowadays which is why I don't even want it now. As for sex scenes/ topless scenes, I'm like "wtf is this shit man" or "this makes women look like fucking objects", so I just avoid those movies like the plague.

I still get aroused to sex scenes but I find them stupid and unnecessary. I feel like this society has become primitive and degenerate honestly. It makes women look like sex objects and they paint them wrong smfh.

So yeah, bottom line, you'll still get aroused but you'll find them to be questionable at best and you'll want to avoid them like the plague (because of it leading to impending relapsing).

-Captain Rex

 

Which exactly?