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The whole chicks checking you out more/being more attracted to you is bullshit

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Smiletron, Jul 27, 2018.

  1. lekasenor

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    So wrong. Longer I go without p or pmo, the more success I experience with women. Every single time.
     
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  2. Mattew

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    I hope so, but for now nofap only gave me depression and paws, and woman can smell from a mile a depressed guy, and stay away from him.
     
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  3. clapbakc

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    Maybe it’s just a dry patch you’ll just have to fight to see the end of the tunnel
     
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  4. Britdad71

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    Sounds like we need to run a challenge ..... say hi to a random every day for a month .... for those of you low in confidence about this, by the end of the month, you won’t be!!!!!!!! Bet we’d have some stories to report here on too!!!!
     
  5. Mattew

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    You would have stories even if you do it while fapping :D
     
  6. Britdad71

    Britdad71 Fapstronaut

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    I take your point .... a better comparison would be between those who abstain vs those who fap .... this is probably not to place to be asking for volunteers then
     
  7. DucksInARow

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    When you masturbate you are telling your body that your mating game is working - it cannot differentiate between fapping and the real thing. The moment you stop fapping, especially early on, the body goes into evolutionary panic and redirects that energy into attracting a mate through subtle physical and non verbal cues that women find attractive. This is a genetic habitual tendency rather than a stone cold law.

    There is no great mystery about this.
     
  8. clapbakc

    clapbakc Fapstronaut

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    So masturbating is good? For attracting women
     
  9. DucksInARow

    DucksInARow Fapstronaut

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    no, reread my post
     
  10. Enlighten you! Haha! Why bother? It is a fact for some and a myth for some. All depends on the person and the lifestyle changes they did.

    As far as I am concerned, I have been working out for over eight months with my streak and the results are good. I have gained 3 kg weight without gaining an inch on my waist. I look way better.

    In my humble opinion, it works. You are welcome to think anything.
     
  11. countitjoy5

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    It happens that they are more responsive but don't go into with the expectation that women are just going to automatically open up to you because when they aren't responsive then you will get discouraged and you may give in at that point.

    I just do the right thing and let everything else take care of itself. I'm done with PMO regardless of how women react to me...
     
  12. I’m just answering the OP.

    I have noticed women checking me out more often but it’s for the exact reason posted by OP. I’m feeling more confident and I’m no longer scared about looking women in the eyes. I used to put my head down all the time a woman approached and even walked a wide arch to avoid getting close to her. If women looked at me before I wouldn’t of noticed.

    Now it’s head up and look ‘em in the eyes. If she isn’t looking at me I don’t care, move on and forget it.

    If she is looking at me with or without a smile I’ll wave and say hello.
     
  13. hijodelaluna18

    hijodelaluna18 Fapstronaut

    In a society that worships science and technology everybody tries to disect everything. and thats your case, you dont want to beleive there is a glow aura or energy that is different when you NOFAP.
    The human being is very complex,we are not just meat and bones.We are an energy unit.
    Women and men are designed to find the healthiest partner to procreate.
    So several things can be behind the so called superpower thing.
    One is when you NOFAP your hair and skin improve,thats not a superpower thats a fact. We judge people health by their outter appeareance so its no wonder women see you as a potential partner.
    Aside from skin and hair everybody has a body language,your body posture,your voice..all of it makes an impression on people. if you are relaxed and masculine with selfconfidence its ging to show in your body language and its going to show in your eyes.Eyes are the most expresive and comunicative organ we have.
    So when you put all the above together...better posture,body language,eye expression,hari and skin in better condition..the girls cant pick 1 reaason,they just feel atracted to the energy that you send out to the world.
    In my case I atract both males and females. People want to interact with me.
    I had lost my mojo.When I was younge I was the kind of uy that could have any girl. But as years went by I saw women ignoring me. it seemed as if I didnt existed.
    And it happened even more once I started having secret homosexual encounters because of PMO.
    I tell you,women were not able to say that guy is a sissy,they just felt that they didnt want to be asociated with me. They sensed somethin was wrong.
    Some of you may say it was all in my head. No it wasnt. Many many years where no woman would turn around and look at me or flirt.
    And now they are curious about me,i can see it.The other day one girl grab to dance...and all her friends were all so excited giving her signs to go ahead with me. It was an attitude like.. yeah you go girl you found you a stud,they were excited for her. She took me upstairs riht in the moment to kiss...she didnt even want to be in the dancefloor for another second.That kind of thing use to happen to me but many years ago.
    During last years I would have a drink stand in the dancefloor and nobody was aproachin me
     
  14. hijodelaluna18

    hijodelaluna18 Fapstronaut

    I agree that women can sense if you are desperate,and they can also sense if your balls are full or empty.trust me. They cant articulate it but its the way it is.
    Also when you are having sex with women,more women will be interested in you.Cause you reinforce your sexual energy they can sense the alpha male in you.When you are locked ina room waisting your male seed with no phisical interaction with women..they sense it,for sure nd run away. ive been in that position for years
     
  15. Mattew

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    All this in 30 days?
     
  16. hijodelaluna18

    hijodelaluna18 Fapstronaut

    I dont know what you mean by All. I had a 20 year PMO addiction so yes in just 1 month my looks have improved A LOT.Im more confident on myself.I mantain eye contact,Im growin a beard.I just feel more masculine all around my homo cravings are 90% gone...Im not as shy and like another guy mentioned I ot that swag in my walk of confidence.Better hair and skin,thicker eyebrows that make my epresion more manly...All those little things togehter make a difference.
     

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