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The ultimate solution for flatline

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bandido, Oct 16, 2018.

  1. Bandido

    Bandido Fapstronaut

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    Flatline will happen even to people who are not addicted to PMO. This has been proven on other forums and the internet. Men were not designed to abstain for that long. Of course, it will hit harder on the addicts like us, but it will also hit the average joe. And who hasn't watched porn or masturbated every now and then? Everyone has. Unless you have no hands, all men have done it at least once a month.

    The solution to flatline is to do a complete abstinence for at least 3 months, so your brain recovers. This alone should allow most addicts to recover for the most part, you can go for 6 months if you wish, but if you're still on flatline, you have to masturbate.

    Notice how flatline occurs right after 5 to 7 days of abstinence. In those first 7 days, you libido is through the roof, is even higher than when you were watching porn and masturbating every day. You should use this to your advantage. Allow your brain to recover, so you can go from addict to casual user like most dudes. Accept the fact that you will never be like a man who was never addicted. The damage is done and you cannot fully reverse it.

    Rather than watching porn, masturbate every 7 days. Pick a particular day and masturbate to your own thoughts, just one time, this would get you out of flatline and keep you on normal libido. If you can't have an erection, then use some porn, you should be able to have hard ons without porn by this point, otherwise, your problem is something else. The one time fap would be enough to kick start your libido again, but won't do much damage if at all.

    If you've been abstaining for months and you still can't get it up or become aroused. I'm sorry but you're problem is either testosterone or something else is fucked up.

    Men are not supposed to be asexual. It will give you something to look forward to as well.

    Of course, if you have a girlfriend, then replace the fap with her, but so many geeks on here have become asexual, is difficult to say if after 6 months or 1 year, they could be able to get it up with a woman. I mean if you've been abstaining hardcore for 1 year and you still can't become aroused with a woman or even your hand, then is something else. You're not supposed to not have any sexual experiences at all. What are you an 90 year old man?

    You're supposed to have some sort of sexual life, whether that is self satisfaction or with a woman. Men were never supposed to go 2 years without any release or even touching themselves one time. That's absurd.

    No wonder so many dudes here are flatlining hardcore for 1 year or more, that's cause you've all become monks and priests. If you stop using your penis and having any sort of sexual activity, of course, your body will adjust and become non sexual. You were never supposed to do that. The whole point is to recover and slowly return to a normal sexual male life, the occasional fap or porn, the occasional sex with a lady, etc. Stuff that all men do every now and then.

    So many people bought into this yourbrainonporn.com idea and took it as gospel. It has its merits and good points, everyone should do a few months of abstinence to recover, but if you're flatlining for 2 years of abstinence? something else is fucked my man.

    You were never supposed to become a priest who is asexual and has zero arousal. People bought into the idea that as long as they work hard and keep at it, one day, they will revive out of their ashes, and emerge out of their nofap cocoons as new men with perfect normal libidos without any sexual problem at all.

    Chances are if you've been that addicted for many years, your recovery will never be 100%. You will never be like those men who never got addicted. You will get better, but unfortunately, you will have suffer the consequences of your actions.

    You will have to accept that you will always struggle with this problem.
     
    Last edited: Oct 16, 2018
  2. Coolyorky

    Coolyorky Fapstronaut

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    It’s about the damage you’ve done to your dopamine receptors and rewiring your brain. Never use porn again. People should abstain from pmo then after some time healing seek real intamicy with a women
     
  3. countitjoy5

    countitjoy5 Fapstronaut

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    Not sure what flatlining is - you mentioned masturbation as a solution, how is that?
     
  4. Bandido

    Bandido Fapstronaut

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    Of course, we've all done damage, some more than others, but 2 years of flatline and having no sexual arousal whatsoever is ridiculous. You're not supposed to become asexual and not have any sexual activity for the rest of your life.

    People on this forum believe that if you relapse, then all progress is undone, which is absurd, that is not how the brain works. The real hardcore truth is that all of us will never be like those men who never got addicted or even bothered with porn. This is the real truth. We can get better and see improvements in our sexuality, mental states, receptors, arousal, etc.

    The damage has been done and just abstaining for a few months is not going to reverse it. This is a sad and painful truth that we all have to accept. Then you have to decide for yourself what to do. Whether that is abstaining for years or using boner pills or whatever.
     

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