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The Race to 90 - To the victor goes the title

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Jefe Rojo, Dec 21, 2018.

  1. I will consult the other group members and get back to you. What are your goals?
     
  2. Abhi513

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    To become the best boxer in the world, to curb this porn addiction and to work up to reading 25 pages of an educational book each day. I already meditate 5 minutes a day I avidly work out, I love motivating people and boxing
     
  3. Nice goals! So no pmo? Do you have your day counter set up yet?
     
  4. Abhi513

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    No pmo mate, And no I havent set it up, u mentioned if I am correct that the day counter would be maintained by the group?
     
  5. Yes, but we need you to set up your tracker so that we can keep track without having to ask you. Do you know how to set it up?
     
  6. Abhi513

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    Yes I can do that, I shall set the timer for today?
     
  7. Abhi513

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    Okay I started the timer for 26th dec 9 am is that good, itll show one day as the timer ..... Now what?
     
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  8. Andy Dufresne

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    Xmas kept me rather occupied so glad to say not too many issues at all (managed to avoid the annual Christmas....well you know what I mean) :0)
    How goes your challenge? Yes nearly 17% there - one week more and nearly 1/4! Not that I'm counting anything.....
     
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  9. Nice job Andy! Yeah, I know what you mean about that unfortunate Christmas tradition... but congratulations this time around! I’m doing good, trying to stay humble. I know my next set of withdrawals are right around the corner. I’m just focusing on getting through day 16 but the prospect of 1/4th of the way there is exciting for sure!
     
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  10. Andy Dufresne

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    Glad to hear it Jefe. Enjoy the symptomless days when they last but like you I know some tough moments ahead. We can do this though
     
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  11. Abhi513

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    Umm have I joined? And is there a group or something:)
     
  12. Andy Dufresne

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    Happy new year guys! how's it all going? I
    I'm finding some days easier than others but been pretty busy with lots of people so day 20has arrived sooner than I expected
     
  13. Andy Dufresne

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    So today I had a weak moment where the 'thoughts' resulted in 10 minutes of browsing some fitness models. Not pornography as such but it meets my previous definition of porn (compulsive browsing).
    On the plus side...;
    * I broke my previous streak
    * I still haven't looked at actual porn / fetish porn (there is a difference)
    * I still haven't orgasmed
    * I was able to stop the browsing activity more quickly than in past

    So why am I feeling so depressed?! I suppose resetting to zero feels like a pretty sh***y reward for achieving the 'pluses' I listed above. It just gives me the incentive to MO without P and then start again (after all MO is not unhealthy in moderation if no P)

    Any thoughts?! I don't want to be in the same place a year from now because of infrequent/brief weak moments
     
  14. @Andy Dufresne you can keep your counter going. I’m glad it didn’t get worse. Keep going! How about we make a deal that if it happens again you have to reset your counter. What do you think?
     
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  15. Not sure if I agree with this but we are all entitled to our opinions :)
     
  16. Andy Dufresne

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    Ok buddy, that's generous! I'm not gonna say no! Thanks for the support
     
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  17. Andy Dufresne

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    My opinion....but the world would be a boring place if everyone agreed all the time :)
     
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    1. It is my desire to join this group. ( I saw the CTR shield and knew I was in the right place)

    2. My goal is 90 days and today is day 0. (I would like permission to make daily posts with a count is that a good idea?)

    3. I am completely new to this site or reaching out on any site for that matter. I need to humbly ask for your strength and encouragement. With my addition I have robbed myself of the love of good women and found myself emotionally bankrupt.

    4. I am also here to lift and support others.


    JR-62

    - Keep the Faith or Die Trying
     
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  19. You’re in JR-62! Welcome. :)
     
  20. Sorry for the delay, you’re in @Abhi513 ! You are on day 13.
     

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