THE LACK OF A GIRLFRIEND IS WHY IM ADDICTED TO PORN AND MASTURBATION

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by LonerWolf, Jan 31, 2019.

  1. ssha6451

    ssha6451 Fapstronaut

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    I would say don't aim to fall in love. Aim to improve yourself and be the best version of yourself. Love will come naturally. There are too many people who try to force these things and it never works.

    Imagine a person who is desperate to fall in love who sits in front of their computer all day playing video games or watching TV. They go on dates and everytime are trying to force the other person to like them. Compare this to someone who goes to the gym, studies in the library, is part of a social sports team or goes hiking as part of a group. You'll be constantly interacting with people and will eventually find someone who shares similar ideas to you.
     
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  2. Shyguy96

    Shyguy96 New Fapstronaut

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    It is different for everyone. However, one should not result to PMO because one does not have a partner. Reason being if one gets to addicted to artificial stimuli, then one will no longer feel much with a partner. This concept can also be described via higher than normal dopamine levels.
     
  3. geekyguy

    geekyguy New Fapstronaut

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    I definitely feel the pain. I am 21 years old and kinda feel stressed out all the time.I have always wanted to do bigger things in life and sometimes getting through the daily grind of meeting the expectations of an orthodox society (while still keeping my vision alive) takes a toll on my mental health and body and to. Fap seems to be the only outlet. I do not like to share things with my parents as people of their generation are always trying to draw conclusions and judgements.I always wish that I had a girlfriend and we could help each other through low points in life.People may think that I am acting selfish, but I wish to make a difference to other people’s lives as well and would want to help her reach new heights.
     
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  4. justafriend

    justafriend Fapstronaut

    Respectfully, might I suggest weight-training and cardio? For a multitude of benefits to body, mind, and spirit?

    It would do wonders for your self-confidence and self-discipline, provide a means/venue to socialize, a healthy outlet for emotions and transmutation.
     
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