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The gift of presence

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Rehab_warrior, Aug 21, 2019.

  1. Rehab_warrior

    Rehab_warrior Fapstronaut

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    Bros,


    On my 45+ day.

    I can't attest of any of the classics benefits... For I am in the flatline, and the flatline is more about anger and sadness for me.

    But one thing is clear : I live mindfuly...

    Not any urges of porn anymore, no flashbacks, no anything that could override my free will.

    NoFap gave me the gift of presence.

    Actually, I earned that gift by abstaining from porn.

    And it can be yours too !!!!!!

    Presence is the key to enjoy simple things... and being enjoyable ( :p) )

    I would lie if I said I have no struggles.

    I do.

    But life is about overcoming struggles and keeping your head up !

    I hope this post will motivate any of the struggling bros out there !

    PRESENCE IS LIFE !


    Thanks for reading,


    For passion,

    The Warrior
     
  2. Strijder

    Strijder Fapstronaut

    Nice post and keep going :cool:
     
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  3. countdown

    countdown Fapstronaut

    Since I started NoFap (and meditation too!) I am much more present, much more aware.
    To be present, for example, while having sex, while kissing your partner, while eating a food or enjoying the landscape is amazing. As you said: it is life, it is to be alive.

    Stay strong and good journey!
     
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  4. Well done! Keep it up!!
     
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  5. Angus McGyver

    Angus McGyver Fapstronaut

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    I can totally agree on what you just mentioned!
    I have today reached exactly 18 months of NoFap (hard-mode) and the probably best super-power you gain is that of increased presence, decreased neediness, and joy of life itself. Just watching a sunset, feeling the wind, enjoying the food you're eating, etc is so enjoyable these days that it can't be compared to my former fapping-days when nothing was enjoyable.
    Almost everything felt dull, mundane, uninteresting and boring, everything but PMO itself.

    The winners, the healthy and successful people of tomorrow are in many ways those who have a positive mentality and enjoy the little things in life. Most people these days can't even go for a walk in a beautiful and quiet forest, just enjoying the nature and all its sounds. Almost everyone is walking (or running) like a mind-deprived zombie because they think it's too "boring" just enjoying the surroundings as they are.
    These are the same people who never get their minds opened up to new ideas, impressions and notions since their minds are hooked up to their electronics whose waves is interfering with those arriving through the ether into the brain.
     
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