The gentleman and masculinity

Some of their examples for the modern gentleman are weird. I don't see what being well dressed has to do with anything.

To me, I think someone is s gentleman mostly for treating others with respect, and generally I guess exhibiting the traits laid out in the fruits of the spirit in the Bible: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control.

That's what I think a gentleman looks like. And I would say a man like that is a solid person. Masculine? Sure, I suppose they could be or they could not be. But either way, just a good, solid, dependable person.