THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PM (or PMO) TOURNAMENT | OPEN

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Saiyan123, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Saiyan123

    Saiyan123 Fapstronaut

    You're right there, the point of abstaining is weak if you're not properly in it for yourself and in it for someone in the future. A lot of what you say is the truth but you're kind of doing the opposite to me now. I said on the first post of nofap I didn't see any bad effects of M on me in 2017 I meant it. I have been gifted with a good physique, attractive and never found any social awkwardness so the effects were just having girls look at me a lot. I used to do very similar things to what you're doing now and it was fun doing it at the time but now I kind of wish I don't personally coz religion for one and I know realistically most of the girls were doing the same thing as me and talk to many different guys and don't/won't care coz they don't hold themselves in high regard so will move on to the next guy after so it was kind of a waste of time looking for an empty thrill. s dangerous aswell, full of triggers. So recently I cut girls out of my life completely, not in a gay way I am still very attracted but I'm not even focusing on them and deleted most of them off my snapchats so I dont see them and I've not been more focussed ever on myself and my religion. I realised I'm not gonna waste my life looking or talking to girls at all but completely focus within and make myself the best version I can be so that's what my mission is now. Humans are weak, so I am gonna train myself to be next level.
     
  2. Saiyan123

    Saiyan123 Fapstronaut

    i've seen the most innocent of girls turn into a general girl in todays society and I can tell you over that 5 years that the general girlin todays society is just a hoe. I know there are lovely women on here and before anyone says aswell, guys are probably worse and there are exceptions but it is definitely the exception to find someone who doesn't just want sex.
     
  3. Saiyan123

    Saiyan123 Fapstronaut

    Woah that's deep. Imagine how crazy the world is gonna be when VR becomes commonplace and everyone is casually watching VR P without thinking of the harmful consequences on the brain.
     
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  4. fleurette

    fleurette Fapstronaut

    If many women are players and you don't like that - don't get involved with them. Period. I'm not involved with jerks and douche bags etc - and believe me there lots of them staring at women as if they were products for sale. Ugh.
    Reg triggers - I wrote a p word once - I apologize. Now you @BeastBoyBalling write about your boy getting hard this number of times. What if I wrote about my girl getting wet this number of times? We need to think about others reading this, esp us females. We are very few but sometimes are triggered maybe more easily by all this talk as well..
     
  5. fleurette

    fleurette Fapstronaut

    I get your point. We'll talk about that in ten years or so :)
     
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  6. Saiyan123

    Saiyan123 Fapstronaut

    That's my plan now, and you've been inspiring to me in the way you go about your life with your structure aswell which I'm trying to follow in a way.
     
  7. fleurette

    fleurette Fapstronaut

    Thank you. You attract what you are. If you're a King busy with building his own kingdom and not wasting your time with girls who have not yet arisen in their Queen - you will attract the second half of yourself eventually. If not - you will be happy anyway. Now if you're angry with the world bc there is no "second halves" this only means you have not found your first half - yourself. Toxic ppl are greatest teachers who teach us how to know our worth.
     
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  8. BeastBoyBalling

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    Welcome to the club. We some handsome species.
    Whats that? Tell to your less religious brother some new shit to think about. :D
    Nobody innocent here.
    True, True.
    No need.
    Let God give us 10 years. For me it will be years of sinning and I accept it. As I said. No innocent here. Damn.

    I will look after my language sisters, my censorship was too light.
     
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  9. llortaton

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    Exactly... I actually found this out myself.
    Most serial killers, Pedophiles, people with mental problems, are all porn addicts.
    The thing is... society doesn't see porn as something that really changes someone to the worse.
    Just wait---
    Wait to see how Porn is going to ruin humanity.
     
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  10. Hickorydoo

    Hickorydoo Fapstronaut

    Day 9 check-in.

    My thought for the day comes from one of my favorite songs, recorded best by Michael Buble; "It's a new dawn, it's a new day, it's a new life for me! And I'm feeling good!"

     
  11. BeastBoyBalling

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    I actually had very bad night, nights ago. I was seeing dark after 7-8 games of 3on3. Close to pass out. Walking 4 kilometres to there and back, worked before it on academics. So basically I was praying to God my soul to take, while I sleep. I do not wanna hurt people in the future, but that is what imma do when they act funny. The more you live the more you sin. That is why those people turn to religion. They think they more sinners than others. They scared God will judge them. I ain't scared. If he my father, he will accept me. He didn't some night ago, so he is okay if I sin or not. I will be pleased seeing you 10 years from now. Preferably not here. Actually I do not need this site anymore, accept from you. At the beginning I was helping everywhere I can. No I just chat with you. If I had your contacts I wouldn't even be here. And preferable wouldn't talk sex. This not so interesting after all. Excuse my, turning on language, I didn't mean. Since I have used it in this way with girls, I didn't have the intention here with you.
     
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  12. llortaton

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    You know its not just porn, right? Yeah-- porn is indeed damaging.
    But all of the violent movies, with gore, killing, slicing and dicing, are all so scary!
    All of these video games-- simulated to killing people.
    I mean, what sense does that make?
     
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  13. BeastBoyBalling

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    Cause they use it to give those dummies hell. Still violence is needed. If you do not understand the last sentence, shit is not right.
     
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  14. llortaton

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    What do you mean by that? :eek:
     
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  15. fleurette

    fleurette Fapstronaut

    - Why, you have very interesting discussions with your brothers here - keep them up.
    - I am a girl too. Do you run a bitch detection test on every girl you consider a player? :D I just mirrored your words back to you. Your thoughts and your behaviours are mirrored in the reality. You think all women are bitches - you get this confirmed. In some period of my life I also got my thoughts on exploitative nature of men confirmed. Many. Many times. Too many :D
     
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  16. cr7da8055

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    Hey!
    Been an unproductive 5 days tbh. Idk why but things haven't been going the way Ive wanted. Urges have increased since sometime, but probably because I feel it's been a long time since ive pmo'ed. Withdrawal symptoms? Most definitely. I don't look at chicks anymore, thinking of some video I watched last night. Its more of me admiring, although not in a creepy way ☺️ . Motivation pretty mediocre, and sleep habits are mediocre too. Hope everyone's doing good.
    Peace!
     
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  17. Helau

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    There are games in which the only winning move is not to play. "Life is a game" only works if you understand the meta-level (metaebene in german, don't know if I translated correctly) of games. The statement would be more true if you said "Life is an almost infinite number of games". If it is either you being deceitful of you being deceived, it's pretty obvious to me that this game is shit. Another good example would be "what entertainment to consume?", the answer is not to entertain yourself.
     
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  18. Helau

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    Consider this statement:"Life is a succession of transactions". If you take JKRowling as an example. Most people decided that 10bucks would be worth less than a Harry Potter book. If so, the purchase is a win-win transaction. Miss Rowling has millions and billions of them. A good heuristic would be to participate in as many transactions as possible. A good wife will lead to a lifetime of win-win transactions for example. Someone abusive will try to force win-lose transactions upon you.
     
  19. BeastBoyBalling

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    You too deep for my mind and I like you flower how you mirror me. I run bitch test on both men and women.
     
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  20. BeastBoyBalling

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    Violence is as part of us as our breath. You cannot protect the weak if you ain't violent when needed. Can't protect kids, family, country none. Faith if you will. Aggression can go long way in being righteous.
    You doing great. Sometimes got to get wasted.
     
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