THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PM (or PMO) TOURNAMENT |CLOSED (NO NEW FIGHTERS)

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  1. Saiyan123

    Saiyan123 Fapstronaut

    really true, I haven't thought of it that way in terms of with other human beings at all that's cool. Yeah like appreciate even just the chance of having this thread and being a part of it, even going on nofap and hearing about it, crazyyyy.

    :emoji_thumbsup:LIKE, ive run out aswell
     
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  2. fleurette

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    Yeah - we are all miracles. If you need some proof, read on: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/probability-being-born_n_877853 Maybe we are indeed carriers of some inner energy and maybe we are all plugged in to the same current (as light bulbs are plugged in to electricity) and maybe this current relates to God or Universe or...? Nobody knows. I just think that we need to value ourselves and our time here on this planet more. We are so much more than just our sex, flesh, bones etc. - this is just details. Thanks for listening. This thread is great :)
     
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  3. Saiyan123

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    Yeah I do physics at university and some of the stuff they say it's like they give excuses to not link it to god, the precise location of the earth so it's not too close or too far from the sun one for example. So many signs of God's existence.
     
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  4. Saiyan123

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    Yeah this thread is great, thanks for listening aswell I think about this a lot to myself.
     
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  5. Saiyan123

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    not too sure I've ever experienced one yet so I don't really understand it lol. Maybe someone with a bigger streak than me might know.
     
  6. IceRocket

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    Good luck to you too!
     
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  7. CoolBuddy7

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    I don't use any specific techniques, although I try not to think about it much. Not thinking that I am trying to abstain from PMO helps me, like how they say, when you are told not to think about something, you eventually do. So, I just don't try to focus too much on Abstaining from PMO, and instead focus on things like Working out, learning new stuff, and etc..

    Yay, Good to see you keeping up with the hype brother !

    Exactly, I don't know exactly if I am an introvert or not, but, I don't usually strike up a conversation with someone whom I have just met, although I wish to. I don't talk much, but, I am so open with all my friends. It feels so good to talk to people and being in a community like this. Happy to know that, everyone feel the same too.. Yeah, being free here is so good. I even talked about this with my friends, but, almost everyone feel like this is not something that's wrong. They are among those people who think Masturbation is healthy. Anyways, I tried telling them that it's not, I would be glad to know that I helped if at least one among them changed.

    Lol, I would go to deep sleep every time I meditate, irrespective of the fact that, I do it after I workout or before I workout. Maybe any tips on how to Meditate "Properly" sister ?:p

    Yeah, It's the best thing I joined in my life too.. I can relate to that. I was a person who wasn't able to control myself for even a day, and Now this has made all of that so easy. Many others, in our Society feel like this is not a big deal. They say it's okay to do this in a moderation. I don't know, I didn't feel good after PMO-ing. So, I've decided to quit, and being around people who have the same goals, and around other people who are already far ahead in terms of abstaining from this, it just makes it much easier to do. Of course, It's still a long way to go, lets be alert and Win over this battle.
     
  8. BeastBoyBalling

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    That is very controversial to me. I am not sure it is a blessing to be born here. Once living it is good, cause you ain't got a choice.
     
  9. BeastBoyBalling

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    For me I realised that is useless lie. I relapsed and I feel great. Problems are everywhere, not only in it. But it has more positives to contain yourself- yes. You are right that the society in general is responsible for lacking of strong communities. Today there is enormous separation and isolation between people. Risk of loneliness is at it best. Especially in the bigger cities. I have read that about the UK.
     
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  10. BeastBoyBalling

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    I am social. Just do not find the need to talk for now. Being intelligent will get you extremely picky. I just do not find pleasure talking with people who does not possess enough of intelligence capacity. There is no pleasure, none. Like I am talking to the wall. I am concerned with ideas, with the quality of some material, of improvement, of doing something. They talk about women, the club, cafees. And those who got some potential, most of them are ignorant, arrogant or whatever they are. They ain't open minded people who will talk with you the way it is supposed. Hate people who dwell too much on their previous acomplishments. It is a new chapter. A new day. Get you game up. Be better communicator. Whatever.
     
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  11. CoolBuddy7

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    That's what I do. I don't talk too much, and I am not always Quiet either. But, I do feel shy to talk to new people, especially if it's a girl.
     
  12. BeastBoyBalling

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    girls are overrated.
     
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  13. Life is beautiful! Sit still, close your eyes, fall in love, stay there. Have a great day everyone!

    P.S. @Saiyan123 Checking in, bouss!
     
  14. BeastBoyBalling

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    What is difference with death?
     
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  15. fleurette

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    Checking in day 70. Experiencing mild urges, anxiety and discomfort with my emotional state and body. I can literally feel inner blocks in it - but maybe that's good, my intuition is improving and it is clear for me what needs to be healed. Had a great walk in nature, read a book, feeling much better now :)
    Hm - do you meditate lying down? I always meditate while sitting and I prefer guided meditations. If you try unguided then start small, 5-10 minutes, concentrate on the breath, sometimes it helps to do a body scan or to focus on some repeated mantra or a word which you repeat regularly, say "one". You may also count your inbreaths-outbreaths from 1 to 10 and then start again. You will keep your mind busy then and maybe you won't fall asleep. Try it and tell me how it went.
    Maybe you are not sure now - but you will learn your lessons and come to your conclusions when the time is due.
    So do you try to adapt? Or do you hate not fitting in? It's the same for me, I hate trivial girl talks about the recent sales, make-up, how to not let him go and things like that :D it's all empty talks for me. But I noticed that when I started accepting myself and allocating time for things that light me up I have made so many good sincere friends who are also weirdos as myself :D
    Alright then, you can train yourself when talking to me, I'm a girl and I'm a new person for you :D
    And most of the girls underestimate themselves and lose their worth when trying to be likable, lovable and I'd say f*ckable (thanks to porn and mass media). Are there any good, wise, feminine, really powerful women on porn? Is there any feminine energy there? Nope. Just abused women used like f*ckmeat to cater to every need of a man. Sorry for my vocabulary but all of this makes me so angry and so sorry for some of women there who maybe don't have other choice.
     
  16. Saiyan123

    Saiyan123 Fapstronaut

    Soooo trueeee. I think obviously there are good ones out there but for the majority I know they don't hold themselves in high regard, probably because it's promoted.
     
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  17. Saiyan123

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    What is your goal? I think mine is to just increase self-discipline coz I want to control something as strong as sexual urges. I think that majority of people, nofap or not are in the situation they can't nowadays.
     
  18. This is death, but you don't have to be dead to experience it. The difference is that if we surrender, we can reap the benefits of death without actually leaving this world behind. We can experience freedom, love and peace... and life! Life is beautiful, death is beautiful. Joy is beautiful, sorrow is beautiful. To know true joy we must surrender to sorrow, to be truly alive we must surrender to death. This isn't just some new age woo-woo, this is human psychology; conscious resistance to one builds unconscious resistance to it's opposite.
     
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  19. control your life

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    I think flatline is lack of sexual drive , normaly comes with lack of motivation,urges , interest in general
     
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  20. MASTER MONK

    MASTER MONK Fapstronaut

    This is some good stuff. :D
     

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