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The 4 RULES to End Sexual Sin

For Fapstronauts who are disciples of Christ

  1. Well, I don't want to hijack the OP's thread to discuss further, but I'd be happy to do so somewhere else if you'd like. I'd be curious to learn on what authority you base your view of reality. Feel free to message me privately or start a new thread and tag me in it. Have a great day!
     
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  2. you don’t have to do any crazy meditation or breathing exercises for 1+ hours everyday nor do you have to take a cold shower everyday or do 20 push-ups when you get an urge

    But if you follow these rules and walk by the spirit and not the flesh, if you realize “it is no longer i who live, but Christ who lives in me”, you can overcome pmo
     
  3. rafael33

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    As long as religious fanaticism is spreading on the Nofap website there will be a problem to present the site as sex positive. “Sexual sin” makes me sick.
     
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  4. Yes is a positive in its context.
     
  5. stands to reason

    stands to reason Fapstronaut

    Thank you for your kind compliment, @goodnice 2.0 The 4 RULES to End Sexual Sin are saving my life. They will end sexual sin for anyone who has 'ears' to hear and will stop arguing who is right. I respect the part you wrote ... "if you really follow them." (so true) The Holy Spirit is always right. God bless you, goodnice 2.0
     
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  6. stands to reason

    stands to reason Fapstronaut

    Thank you dear brother. Very touching support, and encouragement from @goodnice 2.0 It's great to be a part of your growing in love and peace. There are people here who are benefiting from the simply stated, and easy to follow biblical principles that are discovered in the 4 RULES. The 4 RULES to End Sexual Sin will solve the issue of PMO forever; effectively, and forcefully if practiced steadfastly. This Conversation from goodnice, is a wonderful example from him, a young man who is gaining in biblical knowledge; and one who is seeking to understand the vital accuracy of getting freed from the bondage of PMO sin forever; he is gaining in wisdom, and as quickly as possible ... one whose words prove that biblical principles are taking root in his inner man. God bless you @goodnice 2.0

    1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, [which is] your reasonable service.

    2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what [is] that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Romans 12:1-2 KJV

    1 Corinthians 6:19 KJV - What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost [which is] in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

    1 Corinthians 9:27 KJV - But I keep under my body, and bring [it] into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.

    “That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;
    1 Thessalonian 4:4 KJV


     
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  7. Christianity is the true religion because it can actually cure one from pain and suffering. I do not believe meditation ,which is taught in Buddhism, actually works because it will only give temporary peace, but with God you will find lasting calm and peace as long as you don't sin. Oh btw, in Buddhism they worship a man, Buddha, so that right there tells you that Buddhism is not the right way no human should ever be worshipped. Don't meditate and instead pray to our lord.
     
  8. Eastern meditation often involves emptying the mind in order to keep it empty. Christian meditation involves clearing the mind in order to prepare room to fill it with Christ! :)
     
  9. The umbrella term "sex positive" is an agenda which porn is an inseparable part of.
     
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  10. stands to reason

    stands to reason Fapstronaut



    Joshua 1:8 King James Version (KJV)

    8 This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.

    While there are many great verses to prove to you meditation is of necessity. Why masturbate when you are on your bed. How about:
    "When I remember thee upon my bed, and meditate on thee in the night watches." --Psalms 63:6, KJV

    Practice The 4 RULES to End Sexual Sin if you want to end sexual sin. The powerful principles can end your sinning if you follow what God says.



     
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  11. You can't get much more "sex positive" than God. He did invent the entire concept, after all! :) He loves sex and wants us to enjoy it!

    And, just like eating food outside of helpful, healthy boundaries or downright eating the wrong kinds of food (items that can be ingested and digested, but serve no nutritional purpose at all) can cause harm to the body, so it is with sex. A mighty river is a wonderful thing, but that same river, swollen by too much water and overflowing its banks, can be an incredibly destructive force. We do well to respect the power that sex has in our minds, bodies, and souls.
     
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  12. No objection. However creating our private definition of certain terms and then using them while everyone else understands something different isn't really helpful and just adds to the confusion.

    In the common understanding "(casual) sex positive" means "porn positive", "pill positive", "abortion positive" and all the other stuff packaged with it, which made Western society end up where we are now. And the evil force behind this agenda is nobody else than enemy of God: the devil himself.

    Just removing porn is trying to alter the deal with devil, regardless if a in a casual relationship trying to fix ED or when trying to replace porn addiction with sex addiction or prostitute addiction.

    Evil only tricks you, dragging you down further and further, if you continue to give in to it.
     
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  13. One thing that people of faith are often (incorrectly) accused of is being sexually prudish. I just like to set the record straight when the opportunity presents itself. Rather than creating some private definition of "sex positive," I am instead trying to restore it to its actual, original definition. The term has been co-opted today by those with selfish agendas, but it actually *is* God's idea in the first place, and so the original and accurate portrayal of what it means to be "sex positive" is helpful to present, I think. Many have not heard this said before by a person of faith and are quite shocked to find out that God is not a prude! There are boundaries placed around sex due to its magnificent power, but within those boundaries, pretty much anything goes! :)
     
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  15. Great guide for religious guys out there!
     
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  16. stands to reason

    stands to reason Fapstronaut

    The 4 RULES will stop your sexual sinning. They freed me from all sexual sin. Easier for me to walk away from temptation, as I am 2 days away from 180 Days Hard Mode. Memorize them and they will become a part of you. When temptation comes, you will automatically perform them. ~ STR
     
  17. stands to reason

    stands to reason Fapstronaut

    [Stands To Reason] @goodnice reach out to the community, using the information you've received. You have a great opportunity to stretch out an arm for the young men and women (here) who struggle with sin. You can approach teens in ways I am not able to. I pray for you to be confident is God's commandments. Memorize the Word that helps you do this, and be bold for Christ. Time is short. Let us reach those who will 'hear' and follow God, and what we (should) know is righteousness. Thanks formally. ~ STR

    Many Here are Not STOPPING Porn, Masturbation, and Orgasms (PMO)


    Even if you pause PMO temporarily from a long streak using human willpower, this has absolutely nothing to do with transforming the mind, or saving the soul from eternal spiritual death from sin. The saving of the soul is called regeneration. God comes and lives within you and you will not desire to sin anymore. He will help you overcome, as he did for me. The following is why many remain trapped in PMO.

    #1 BE OF GOD
    Do you know God? You think you know him? Do you profess you know him? Are you good ground? Or are you deceived and really a deceptive tare? We don't know how many tares are among us. Jesus said, you will know them by their fruit. But do you really think you are living for God when you are living in PMO sin? Do you abide in God? Matthew 15:8 KJV - This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me. How do you know you have God inside you? 1 John 4:1-2 - Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world. Hereby know ye the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesseth that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is of God: How do you know you love God? John 14:21 - He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him. Matthew 24:13 - But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved. A question I ask for those who still struggle to walk with God: How would you react if you could see Jesus in the room with you while performing any of PMO? I know what I would do --What is your answer?

    #2 FEAR GOD (reverent awe)
    Do you fear God and hate sin? 8:13 - The fear of the Lord is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate. Until you hate sin you will remain arrogant against God and held in place to PMO. You cannot have reverent awe of God when you have no respect of sin. Do not be deceived, sin is enmity against God and without repentance, sin will kill you.

    #3 GET WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING
    You lack wisdom Proverbs 9:10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding. James 1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding. Proverbs 4:7

    #4 BECOME A HEARER OF THE WORD
    Are you hearing God’s voice? otherwise you would follow him --wouldn't you? James 1:19 - let every man be swift to hearMatthew 11:15 - He that hath ears to hear, let him hear. Romans 10:17 - So then faith [cometh] by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

    #5 BELIEVE GOD’S WORD
    Are you believing on God? Take heed, there is an eternal difference in believing in Jesus and believing on Jesus. Believing on God means you have complete unwavering steadfast trust on what God says his will is. You trust always and do not doubt. The Bible says that by walking in the Spirit we will not fulfill the lust of the flesh. ... Paul writes in Galatians 5:16, “I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. To commit sin is to transgress or disobey these laws. John 15:7 - If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you. James 1:6-8 - But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.

    #6 BECOME A DOER OF THE WORD
    Are you doing what the Word says? James 1:22 - But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.
     
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  18. stands to reason

    stands to reason Fapstronaut

    The RULES end PMO. Get the word out. Let's rescue tormented souls. May God bless you @Jufddee. Be bold for Christ.
     

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