Stuck in a rut

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Run_Like_Joseph_Did, Jun 27, 2018.

  1. Run_Like_Joseph_Did

    Run_Like_Joseph_Did Fapstronaut

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    ive gotten a new job recently part-time at an Albertsons. I was hoping not only for money(the pay is good) but also a chance to stay occupied and not distract myself with PMO. But recently I have found myself M’ing a lot in the mornings when I first wake up and staring at the women in the store(its 90+ degrees where I am so guess what I’m dealing with). Any advice from guys who also have trouble keeping this stuff out of my head?
     
  2. All that M-ing only fuels obsession and infatuation with the ladies. When I see or associate with them now, the memory and impact of being in their presence don't stick to me as much anymore because there's no 'fuel in the fire' from M-ing. It does not mean that I don't appreciate being in the presence of beautiful women. I do, as much as always before! My experience is now that I enjoy all splendorous things at equal measure; sunsets, summer starry skies, strolls, best friends, favorite books, favorite music, and beautiful women. All the same! An eternal revolving door of delight!
     
  3. Run_Like_Joseph_Did

    Run_Like_Joseph_Did Fapstronaut

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    I am feeling super down. Just peeked at porn. I feel like garbage
     
  4. P-Free

    P-Free Fapstronaut

    Don’t beat yourself up over it, friend. There’s no point in doing so. Learn from it and move on to make the next day better!

    Ask yourself:
    What triggered you?
    How were you feeling before you were triggered?
    What can you do differently the next time this trigger comes up?

    Make it a learning experience to make you stronger and more prepared.

    You can do this! All my best to you!
     

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