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STOP PORN NOW - THE RISE AND FALL

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by SaltedPeter, Mar 21, 2018.

  1. Mar 21, 2018 #1
    SaltedPeter

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    This is part #4 of a series of information.
    STOP PORN NOW - THE RISE AND FALL

    The moment of engagement, you ( us) as a porn user will be the most dedicated person in your life the day of porn use. You will plan, lie and work hard so everything is perfect.
    You'll search sometimes hours look for the one special video and spend even more hours scouring the internet for that one morsel that your brain tells you thats the one that will get you off and make life better. " Lie " .

    Facts:
    1. You will spend more time planning your porn date then a real one.
    2. You will spend more time planning your porn date then you will a trip.
    3. You will waste hours not masturbating but searching for porn to make sure you have access to that one.
    4. You will get bored once you have your porn date and move on to another rinse and repeat that can go on for decades.
    5. Porn will never, ever make your life complete no more then Heroine or Meth will.
    PAY ATTENTION :
    If you start watching Porn at 20 and stop at 40, you have watched porn about 8 years total time. That means setup, and planning as well as watching you will spend about 45% of your porn life on porn. If like me you started at 10 and quit at age 55 and was an addict for 45 years. I spent 15 years on average engaged in porn.
    First of all I am not talking days I am talking 15 years worth period including the minutes in a day equal to about 15 years with porn.


    Over View :
    What if I told you, you could add 10 or 15 years to your life by not using porn ?
    If you stopped today at age 20 you would save 8 years of your life even if you only lived to be 40.

    This is not some joke and the reality is porn users have a frucked up sense of reality.
    I have covered family, and health as was as major issues in the Stop Porn Now Series.

    Sadly most of you wont read this or the series and will continue burning days and hours and years off your life and giving it to porn.

    STOP PORN NOW, RIGHT NOW.........YOU OWE YOUR LIFE THAT MUCH.
     
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  2. Mar 21, 2018 #2
    thorswrath32

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    Exactly ! there's never any true satisfaction any pride or acomplishment to be attained by either porn use or drug use (i've done both) I tell you today what gives me a sense of pride, satisfaction and achievement is simple things like someone saying thank you after i have given them some advice, or i have finished building a model kit and people comment on the completed work or when i've made a really nice meal from scratch and it tastes amazing or i've done a work out and got past the voice that says 'maybe do it tomorrow'

    I never once felt true satisfaction after using porn, only self loathing, pitty, disgust and loss of self esteem because we all have to come back down to earth after using whether that's drugs or porn.
     
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  3. Mar 21, 2018 #3
    Reverent

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    I don't understand your fuzzy math. I know that I never watched 15 years of porn. I stopped at 40. It doesnt take hours to watch porn. Only minutes, high speed internet means fast. Bookmarks and shortcuts speed scouring. C'mon it's not a one size fits all addiction.

    All of your facts are opinions. Your series has a great deal of presumptions. Also you come across as preachy.

    You are doing great with your reboot, but realize everyone is unique and has different challenges.

    I wish you the best of luck.
     
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  4. Mar 21, 2018 #4
    SaltedPeter

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    Doesn't matter to me whether you agree or not or what you think.. I am not writing the information for people like you. If all you can do is pick apart a helpful thread you miss the point completely.
    So you are wrong and I stand by all my posts, and as I said I could care less what you think as this was obviously not written for you. I wish you luck on that judgement part of the recovery when you get there.
    Do you watch TV? Do you buy all the facts told to you? Shootings, Food additives, Homeless, jobless and many more are told to you by the news and I doubt you go an check to see if they are accurate, so don't waste my time until you do your research as I know most never ever check the facts but are always quick to judge.
     
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  5. Mar 21, 2018 #5
    Reverent

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    Why the attitude? It only supports my view of you being condescending? If you are going to make blanket statements as facts they better hold up under scrutiny. Whereas your assertions are only your opinions. Which you completely entitled to.

    You say your advice isn't for "people like me." but if I am a recovery PA and you write about such then who is it for?

    You also say you "don't care what I think". Therein lies the problem. You don't CARE. You seem more interested in conflating your assertions than really helping people on this forum. What did I ever do to you?

    And to answer your question, no I don't believe everything I hear on TV. And I certainly don't believe anything some random addict posts on a public forum claiming it as fact when thier head could be clouded in a PMO fog.

    @SaltedPeter You seem to know alot about me, at what point will I get to the judgement point of my recovery? When will I be as omniscient as you?

    I guess I should just take your posts with a grain of salt. Good luck.
     
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  6. Mar 21, 2018 #6
    thorswrath32

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    For some of us it did, when i used cocaine with porn I would often have 10-12 hour sessions where night turned into day. It was a tragic way to live but i do agree that everyone is unique and not everyone is going to have the same level of use. for example the guy knocking one out to playboy in the restroom for 15 minutes is on a different level to the person who spends hours searching, clicking and collecting but at the same time its possible for the first example to progress on to the later. Human sexual behaviour is a complex thing to understand because we attach so much meaning behind it and there is so many angles to approach it from, whereas with animals generally it's an instinct required for reproduction. There's always going to be division of opinions and different facts to suit all sorts of arguments. I guess the main point of what the OP is getting at is overall the pursuit of engaging in porn is not all it's cracked up to be and the time spent engaging in it could have been put to better use.
     
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  7. Mar 21, 2018 #7
    SaltedPeter

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    No attitude at all, please don't empower yourself thinking you affect me in anyway what so ever.
    You seem to think me saying you don't matter is an attack, you don't matter because there is no reason for me to
    care at all. Its one random porn addict to another you don't like what I write move on and don't post snarky responses.

    So let me get this right, you come on my post say its B.S. I tell you mind your manners and own business and you get upset ?
    There is a thing called the Bambi rule, if you can't say anything nice don't say nothing at all ! But defend myself I shall.
    Any one can be victimized if they choose to. But to be clear no I am not here to help " YOU ". So I "do" care about people just not you. I come on here, yes as a Random Porn Addict, exactly.... and share my information. Read that clear "MY" information.
    It is so easy to throw rocks from the crowd and judge others, yes I am a Random Porn Addict, which means you don't know me one percent. So when you a Random Porn Addict call B.S. I take your opinion with a grain of salt. The awesome site that is NoFap allows Random Porn Addicts to share ideas, thoughts and help. Nothing I said was hurtful or would harm anyone, in fact most people will read and think not judge. Please continue with your insults and judgement it wont influence me at all.
    I may be a porn addict this is true, but i am not uneducated or inept in my findings that I post. I said I stand behind what my post say. Snarky remarks and judgment wont change anything I said or feel.
     
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