I thought that we had almost reached our one year mark... Last summer, I found constant searches for a men's site on my husband's Facebook. He denied any porn, but then I found that too in the website data of an old phone. I was completely devastated because I thought we'd dealt with the issue of porn early in our marriage. He was really sad that he caused me so much pain and agreed to quit. He said he didn't feel it was an addiction and that he found quitting easy. I asked him several times to be sure to tell me if he slipped up, and he agreed that he would. I set the controls on his phone so that he couldn't use private browsing or delete his history. I would sometimes check his history and it was always clean, so it was a nice way to calm myself when I felt anxious. In the past couple months, I was getting a bit concerned because his history kept showing that he'd clicked on the Facebook profiles of various pretty young women. Not all the time, and nothing that led to anything inappropriate, so I didn't mention it. Then, I found a bikini site where he'd looked at several pictures so I confronted him about that and the profiles. He admitted that he'd found a porn magazine in a building he was renovating and he'd kept it for himself for the past few months and that it made him want more wherever he could get it. I feel shattered. The first time, he could claim not to know how hurt I'd be, but this time, he knew. He did eventually tell me, of course, but not for 3 months of having and using the magazine. I took the lock off his phone and I won't be looking at his history anymore, he has to make the change, I obviously can't orchestrate it. I just feel so hopeless.